She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
In your friends case, they probably never passed the physical. Sometimes no matter what guys do, what methods they use, they get tossed into the "friends zone". That's just how it is. You can't take an HB9, a guy that's rated a 5 and expect to throw some lines at her and score - no way UNLESS you're rich, celeb, etc. I rate myself as an 8 looks wise, thus an HB9 isn't too far fetched.Jitterbug said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I love the try, he words his sentences impressively indeed for a 24 yr. old. - the trouble is the content. That's why this forum is for 25 yrs. old and over and stresses maturity. He hasn't been where we've been yet - with all due respect JITTERBUG. He states in proving his theory, "I bed a lot of them after a date or two, if there's any mutual attraction that I can escalate from". My question is, who can't??? And try doing it on a consistent basis with someone rated a point above you and see where you end up.jophil28 said:
I'm going nuts.