"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This workout - whaddya think?

Grandor

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Ok, I have been lifting for about 6 months now.
Whey Protein and Creatine for a month.
Looking to bulk up.
3 day split. ( 1,2,1,off,2,1,2,off,1,2,1,off,2,1,2 off etc)

Code:
Workout #1


Chest:

 Bench Press 8,6,4,2
 Incline Dumbbell Bench 8,6,4
 Incline Dumbbell Flies 12,8

Back:

 Close-Grip Chins 20 (in however many sets it takes, 2-3)
 One arm dumbbell Rows 6,4,4

**Power Training:
 Deadlifts 10,6,4 to failure

Forearms:
 Wrist Curls 10,8,6
 Reverse Wrist Curls 10,8

Abdominals
 Crunches 5x25
 Sways 5 sets to failure
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Workout #2


Shoulders:
 Barbell Clean and Press 10,8,6,4
 Dumbbell Lateral Raises 8,6

**Power Training:
 Push Presses 6,4 to failure

Lower Back:
** Power Training:
 Deadlifts 10,6 to failure

Upper Arms:
 Standing Barbell Curls 10,8,6
 Alternate Dumbbell Curls 8,6,4
 Twenty-Ones 2 sets
 Seated Concentration Curls 8
 Seated Tricep Presses 10,8
 Lying Triceps Extentions 10,8,6

Abdominals:
 Crunches 5x25
 Sways 5 sets to failure
Since taking creatine and whey (used to just be eggwhite shakes) I have gone up 22lbs in bench in that one month period.

Whaddya think ya'll?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Great job on the bench

Seems like a variation of arnolds newbie workouts. This is not a three day split, it's a six day split.

* 32-34 sets is just waaay too much if you're new to the gym, cut it down by at least 10 sets per workout. Keep the workouts around an hour.
* Don't deadlift on every day you workout, I don't know how heavy weights you lift right now, but I'm having trouble lifiting all out on the deadlifts once a week.
* Get some rows in there for the back
* Get in some leg work, squats, sldl and calves raises. Puny legs look awful on developed over body.
* Get in some more rest days to your split.
* and read diesel's bulking guide.
 

Grandor

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yeah forgot I actually did have dumbell rows in there but didnt post it:

Code:
Workout #1


Chest:

 Bench Press 8,6,4,2
 Incline Dumbbell Bench 8,6,4
 Incline Dumbbell Flies 12,8

Back:

 Close-Grip Chins 20 (in however many sets it takes, 2-3)
 Barbell Rows 8,6,4
 One arm dumbbell Rows 6,4,4

**Power Training:
 Deadlifts 10,6,4 to failure

Forearms:
 Wrist Curls 10,8,6
 Reverse Wrist Curls 10,8

Abdominals
 Crunches 5x25
 Sways 5 sets to failure
---------------------------------------------------
Workout #2


Shoulders:
 Barbell Clean and Press 10,8,6,4
 Dumbbell Lateral Raises 8,6

**Power Training:
 Push Presses 6,4 to failure

Lower Back:
** Power Training:
 Deadlifts 10,6 to failure

Upper Arms:
 Standing Barbell Curls 10,8,6
 Alternate Dumbbell Curls 8,6,4
 Twenty-Ones 2 sets
 Seated Concentration Curls 8
 Seated Tricep Presses 10,8
 Lying Triceps Extentions 10,8,6

Abdominals:
 Crunches 5x25
 Sways 5 sets to failure

As for legs, I'm going to start workin with my brother (experienced lifter) on a leg regimine for myself.

- as for how heavy im lifting:

1RM benchpress - 185lbs
1RM deadlift - 270lbs
1RM clean and press - 150ish lbs
Lifting on and off for 12 months, but only seriously in the past two months. I'm 16.5 years old
 
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