"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This woman and I have been talking for about a month...she's also seeing some guy "unofficially." She's incredibly intelligent, making conversation interesting...psychology major as well. She buys me things I don't need, and don't ask for. Usually I'm not that bad with things, but I seem to be mangling this one. She says she wants to basically just be friends with benefits...no problem there. Now our "friendship" is gone, and I keep getting brushed off. What's going on? Take what I can, and move on? Or wait for this extraordinary woman? I'm sure I've already made my decision, just checking with others.

Oh I guess I should say that because of her I've gotten a better job, made some changes in my life, and become a slightly better person because of her. I feel deeply for her, I won't deny it, but if she doesn't want me around or anything, then I don't need to try to change her.

Anyway, any advice is appreciated.

*Just read the sticky thread...sorry won't post questions that may have been answered already anymore. *
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't fall in love with a hor F buddy - which I know you are since you have changed dramatically because of this girl!

Do not trust or get emotionally attached to any girl, unless you contemplate marrying her - this is to protect you when she bails! Remember, you are just the next pimp in line!!!
 
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You did nothing wrong posting....every DJ wants individual attention to their case - it seems more personal and helpful then just reading generic material!
 
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that was prolly about the best advice i've ever heard before...time to have some fun again...damn...i mean damn...i just read that article on infatuation, and that happened to me right before this girl too...seems i've got a monkey to shake by some fun.
 
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