"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This Woman Is The Devil

Kalel21

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This girl is the biggest **** tease ever.

Check out thos story.

About 2-3 weeks ago I met this blonde in a nightclub where I live. I was introduced to her by a buddy of mine who I work with. Okay so I am introduced and so far she likes me (or at least I think she does) I didn't even need to try and create attraction. So I get her number, call her and we plan to meet up next week.

Come next week we go out to this crappy pub (or bar). After hanging out for 30 mins we go to another bar which isn't too bad. After that she tells me to come back to her place.

We get back to hers and I start some kino. We kiss and we lie next to each other on the bed. did more kissing and I even fingered her. After that I pull a condom from my pocket to put on. I put it on and just before we have sex she says " I don't want to have sex". I say "why" and she says "I don't want you to think I'm easy". I was pissed. After that I took the condom off and went to sleep. I woke up the next day and went to work. I tried to calling her and gave her a text message her but she didn't respond and didn't answer the phone. Whats wrong with this chick. Whats the next move?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Juan and only

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Sounds like she has all the control, you should be the one who is teasing her - not the other way around.

"I tried to calling her and gave her a text message"

That was a mistake in my opinion, you should've waited a while.
 

Boner da Stoner

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LOLZ more foreplay required!!

I bet after she said that you rolled over and went to bed:crackup:
 

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ha ha ha ha.......:crackup:

kinda remainds me of when chicks say; "i don't know what happened, i'm really not like that"

it was just another test she wanted you to pass. what she was really thing is: "is this alright, is he still gona respect me in the morning.....)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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muttley

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Shes not satan or a c0ck tease. Thats her anti-slut-defense/Last-minute-resistance.

She dont want u to think of her as a slut so her defenses go up. You have to do a "freeze out".

For example get up and say "damn, that reminds me i have to make a fone call" ir get up and check an email, or write a txt message or something. Then go back in and slowly escalate again. She wants to give it up but not so fast.
 

TedJustAdmitIt

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She's not a c0cktease...she was looking for you to lead,to take responsibility for the situation.

She wanted you to fvck her...when she said "I don't want you to think I'm easy" that was her way of asking you to reasure her that she wasn't a slvt for wanting your c0ck.

Instead of getting pissed you could've told her that "We're both consenting adults who know our own minds,the way we feel right now is completely natural and doesn't make either of us slvts".....then you could've carried on with more foreplay...so much foreplay that she gets so turned on that she ends up BEGGING you to give it to her.

Edumacate yourself in the concepts of ASD(Anti-Slvt-Defense)&LMR(Last-Minute-Resistance)...you could've fvcked her if you'd known about these.
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
LOLZ more foreplay required!!

I bet after she said that you rolled over and went to bed:crackup:
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

tmpgstx

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It's pretty crazy how the most slutty ones play these little games. She's obviously a ho - he hasn't known her long at all and go already back to her place.

She probably knows your a 'good' guy and wants to be somewhat of a 'good' girl for you.
 

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"Quoting House of 1000 Corpses, in a high pitched giggle"

"Dr. Satan! Teeheeheeheehee"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dannyc

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damn dude the exact same **** happened to me in the summer. I slipped out the coolest line with such assurance for her, she couldnt say no. I was like 'slut? that means ill be a slut too. what the **** is that word anyway? slut?'. It worked man, she just gave a kind of relieved smile.

You learned from the situation, just dont give up like this next time.
 
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