"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This woman is frustrating me..what to do?

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Good day DJ's

I have a bit of an issue with a lady I am starting to go out with. She says she wants to see me and when we do go out we have a great time. The issue is her and I meet each other every second week. This is because she works two jobs, and I study and work weekends. We also live in different parts of the city we reside in. I had to originally tell her how frustrated I was getting because it was close to two and a half weeks between dates we were seeing each other(the first time). We are potentially seeing eachother again over the weekend, but it depends on her work schedule. She is a lovely, attractive lady and we share similiar/the same interests. But at times, my patience is being tested. What should I do. The advice is greatly appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If its not what you want, then move on.

Or spin other plates too. It could work out to be pretty convenient for you.

Women who are interested make excuses to see you, instead of excuses NOT to.

If you have all your hopes on this woman, you're setting yourself up for some hard times ahead.

Plus, read the DJ Bible.
 
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Sometimes seeing a girl every 2 weeks is the ideal. You have enough time to miss eachother, you have lots of stories to share, and you can still build on the chemistry of the previous time. You need to make sure you are getting closer and closer (noticeably - in her words) every time but it can work if SHE is initiating the dates mostly (and you are declining one every now and then). It doesn't work if she is making excuses not to see you. That can work for 3 months or so and then you need to take it to once a week.
 
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