"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This Whole Forum In a Nut Shell

612_Da_Playa

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In a nut shell could we say that to attract women you need to be a self-sufficient man whom places emphasis on himself and lives his life for his self and not women. :yes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hahaha...there is a little more to it than that playa. :p But that is a good place to start. Picking up HB in my opinion is a two fold process. First, you must place emphasis on yourself, like you said Playa. You need to emphasize your attractive qualities and improve your pitfalls. THEN, you need to work on your target, or the girl you hope to attract. You need to stir up all of her little crazy emotions and mold them to your liking. :D This is why I love being a guy! By virtue of being a guy I am grounded in logic and reality. Therefore, I can learn to make a woman, who is grounded in emotion, go crazy over me while still remaining grounded myself! Remember guys we have the advantage in this dynamic. All of the women just don't want us to know it!:up:
 
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