When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I've got my own views on god that have changed drastically since discovering the truth about women. I've mentioned this before, as have others here as well.joekerr31 said:im telling ya, its impossible not to look at human being and think that 'life' has GOT to be a huge practical joke.
that God or aliens or someone is watching all this and pissing themselves laughing at the bullsh*t humans put themselves through.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LOLRollo Tomassi said:Well, here's a convincing argument for moral absolutism. Hey, the guy got what he deserved right? I expect Last Man Standing, Victory Unlimited and the rest of flag waving moralists looking for their 'quality women' to sing the praises of stoning a man for adultery.
This is a random blog from a guy, this ideal is spreading around alot and its only growing! Just a response post to the quality women ideal, i think we can at least agree what is 'not' quality!Rollo Tomassi said:Well, here's a convincing argument for moral absolutism. Hey, the guy got what he deserved right? I expect Last Man Standing, Victory Unlimited and the rest of flag waving moralists looking for their 'quality women' to sing the praises of stoning a man for adultery.
jonwon said:It's another indication of the hive mind American women either adopt or innately possess---I'll let the armchair theorists debate whether or not it's sociobiological imperatives that lead them to the habituation of such nihilistic hedonism; the ersatz rebellion of tattoos, piercings, drunken and stoned at an endless array of nights, hopping from one man to another, one club to another, in a desperate search for the next thrill at the party.