"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This weekend. Take action!

Warrior74

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My weekend was last night. Went out and ran into an old FB, had a few drinks and some fun. I have my kid this weekend so I will be spending all of my time with her. You guys with no kids, make it a point to take action this weekend. Get out there, go somewhere new, have some adventures, hook up with your girl, FB, plate, girlfriend, wife..whatever and do something! Go sarge, hunt, pimp or what ever it is you do. Do something new. Just don't sit home all weekend on the internets or going to the same old places. Get up, get out and get something. Take action! Good luck!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJDanny

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Alright so this weekend(including last couple of days) I quit my job, started looking for investors for my new business, spent today cleaning the house, tonight tomorrow and sunday I am getting out on the ice with some buddys to play hockey. oh and I quit that facebook thing and installed some software to keep me off my usual time wasting sites. I've wasted too much of my life with stupid **** to keep doing that going forward. Unfortunately, it doesn't look like there's gonna be much time for the ladies this weekend, their loss.;)
 

trent81

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I'm going hunting. Gonna go shoot some defenseless creatures. Can't wait.
 

djzulu

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Going out with ex tonight, then tomorrow going with dog to beach and meeting up with friend to check out some bars in the evening.

No plans as of now for Sunday, will probably work on a new art piece.
 

Solomon

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My buddy met some chick(s) last week courtsey of me (I opened them after we walked by and she said "oh my gosh he is hot") we are gonna meet up with them for some drinks, however before we meet up with them, we gonna go out and fish for some new catches

peace

p.s. on sunday watching the game with some buddies, its gonna be fun
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Poonani Maker

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I'm going fishing in two ponds/lakes today that I've never tried. Also, I'm packing my sh!t for a move to a better place, even though I haven't signed a new lease yet. The b!tch won't call me back even after she gave a green light to move 2 weeks ago.

I'll go out tonight, ALONE. I could go with others, but I don't want to go that far to "Drink." Even though a couple of decent sex-giving women will be there, I'd rather just socialize close to home, so I go it alone. Oh well.
 

synergy1

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Another weekend is upon us, and we should all follow previous examples on taking action.

Having moved and getting a business set up has left me with no time to make friends yet. I had a great social network back in Boston, so I am not worried about my ability so much making the effort to make friends. Since we are all set up now, I can focus on that aspect of life. We have plans of a pre party ( think pre gaming) and hitting up downtown with some folks. No idea what the women situation will be like, but I suspect not too great which means i'll have to make the most of it when we hit up downtown and the house parties.

We shall see how out of practice my DJing skills are. I had a girlfriend for the last year, and have not had to chat it up with the hunnies. Part of the action plan is to get back to where I was and snag a few numbers and make new friends.
 

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Tonight: Halloween party!!

TOMORROW: ....I dunno yet!!!

Sunday: Taking some headshots!!

In general: I'm glad I don't have kids!!!
 
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