"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This Was Wierd

justiceseeker

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For the past few months, I've frequented a local pub/restaurant for lunch. The food is good and the waitresses are generally hot. So, there's this one waitress in particular who is very cute hb9, and I usually see here there on Wednesdays.

Now let me say, I'm usually a big tipper with everyone, but as most guys know, if she's hot, she gets more. I'll order a 10 dollar lunch and usually tip her another 10.

The thing is, I never act like it's a big deal or that I expect anything for it. I act like I do it all the time. This waitress must get hit on dozens of times per day, and she must get big tips. But I think most of the time she can tell the guy is hitting on her or wants to date her. I'm always polite and friendly, but never take it any further. She's usually very friendly, but today she practically asks me out. She was all nervous and flustered, and asked where I work and how long much lunch is. I told her that I just graduated law school, and she said I have to keep her informed about where I'm working I know this doesn't sound like much, but you'd have to be there to see how obvious it was that she wanted me to ask her out.

I think it's OK to give gifts and be nice to women, as long as you don't act like you're expecting something for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prodigy746

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wow you tip 100 % ??? ROFL

Anyway shes prolly a gold digger going after a guy that just finished law school IMO.
 

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Thats just retarded.

Sorry, But just because she has nice tits, doesn't mean she's worth money.

But hey if you wanna buy your way into the box be my guest... Warning ya now, when the loots gone so is she.
 

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fat mexican guy or sexy blonde bombshell, get the same tip when i eat

i never understood guys trying to win over waitresses/strippers etc with tips and money its their JOB ur just a trick
 
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