This was in the nice guy v.s. jerk section.

[DJ_in_making]

My 2 cents about the nice guys vs. jerk guys... until a woman is mature enough, really knows herself and is ready for a solid relationship, I believe she will gravitate towards the "bad boys." Those relationships don't last, which deep down is fine with her because she doesn't really want it to. However, when she grows up (as I now have) she changes her definition of what's interesting and attractive - the stability and predictability of a nice guy become magnetic. So guys, don't lament the departure of a woman who wants a bad boy. Wait for a woman who appreciates you.

Can u trust what this woman is saying or is it false?

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

Be who you want to be, whether it's the best way to get girls or not...

 

[Wont Stop Mackin]

Its not always about being the bad guy, but the truth is nice guys do finish last when it comes to GIRLS, until they mature into WOMEN and really realize what they've been missing out on, and been nexting for the bad guy whos a dropout with no money and in jail. I have had this theory for ages now, but i've also concluded from my recent relationship you cant be all a$$hole, because then your just an a$$shole when she remembers you. You have to be a combination of both, the key to this is balance, one day forget to call, the next surprise her with something nice. Simple as that, and she'll be craving for more, and you got her on her toes not knowing what to expect.

 

[coolguy676767]

Originally posted by Wont Stop Mackin
Its not always about being the bad guy, but the truth is nice guys do finish last when it comes to GIRLS, until they mature into WOMEN and really realize what they've been missing out on, and been nexting for the bad guy whos a dropout with no money and in jail. I have had this theory for ages now, but i've also concluded from my recent relationship you cant be all a$$hole, because then your just an a$$shole when she remembers you. You have to be a combination of both, the key to this is balance, one day forget to call, the next surprise her with something nice. Simple as that, and she'll be craving for more, and you got her on her toes not knowing what to expect.

Exactly

 

[Fender]

Hmm, I think nice guys can definately get females- "girls" OR "women"

But the trick is to be a nice guy and not be an AFC. The difference is phenomenal. Nice guys can be charming, rich, smart, suave, and many other good things. AFC is just a shy, little timid creature, hiding in the shadows.

But back to the women growing up thing, it may be because of social pressure and fear of dying alone that drives women to marry AFC's. It's surprising what the midn will do just to trick itself...

But nice guys, will find females falling for them, no matter their age.

-peace-

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

you will eventualy learn that girls do not like nice guys the most. But they do not like jerks the most either. Nice guys have a few good qualities and mostly AFC qualities. A jerk has some very important qualitys such as confidence and may be more fun and exciting but has bad qualities aswell, do your seriously think women want to be treated like crap? The DJ takes the good qualites of the nice guy such as being thoughtfull etc, the good qualites of the jerk such as fun exciting confident etc.. and adds some charisma to that.

 

[Fender]

I dunno, but i feel there is a little language barrier at sosuave then.

to me, "nice guys" does not equal AFC

and similarly, "bad boys" do not equal jerk


both the Nice guys and bad boys can get girls.

Anyone disagree with me on this one?