"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This Thing Called Risk Are What All Afc's Are Lacking!!!

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The greatest of men have endured and braved the greatest challenges.

I look back to the greatest men in history i,e Alexander the Great, Julius Ceasar, Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill, Franklin Roosevelt, John F. Kennedy, etc. and they all shared a common trait. They were courageous in the face of great adversity. It was often a matter of life and death for thousands and even millions of people. Yet, they did not budge from their principles and determination.

Makes it easy to gain a good perspective on things. Women problems are pale in comparison to what these men faced so whenever I feel inimidated in approaching or talking to a girl, I bring to mind some of these great men, and it makes things so much easier.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Right on the money!

During my sessions with The 48 Laws of Power , the biggest piece of wisdom I extracted is this... and anytime I need to find my balls and be a MAN, I recite this to myself:

Everyone admires the BOLD. No one honors the timid.
 

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so true mate,

everything we do IS a risk, but we don't fear it because we do it so regularly and have the confidence in ourselves to control the fear associated with that risk eg driving- we do it everyday and its a risk but we are confident in our own abilities to drive safely (not always!) and properly. this is how you must become with women
 

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Back in my AFC days, I was shy, timid, and underestimated myself. There were these group of girls who every day I would sit at the cafeteria. One day I just did it. I cant explain it or describe it. I didn’t do any special rituals or preparations, I just did it. What did I do, you ask? I walked over there and started talking to the girls. All three of them. I was so nervous and knew I could risk looking stupid but I really had nothing to lose because they probably thought I was a loser anyway. My palms were sweaty and my stomach in knots. But I did it. Turns out they were pretty cool and they told me they had a hard time getting boyfriends cause they were shy. After that day I changed tremendously. I started lifting weights, talking to girls, and the rest is history.
That's it. You became a MAN!
I'm still waiting for that day. ****.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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