"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This sucks!!! theres no where to go for NYE

HeyPachuco!

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Seriously, lol, theres actually knowhere interesting to go. All of the clubs are expensive and most of the actual ''events'' are not even today - NYE, they're on NYD and the 2nd.

98% of people I know are not doing anything. I wanted to celebrate the NY since last year I was stuck with my ex girlfriend getting wasted and arguing in the middle of the street.

Does anyone else feel in the NYE spirit? Even my parents are going out to a Over 40's club, I cant be stuck here at home. None of my buddies are doing anything either, what can I do? suggestions?

Before I go, I hope everyone here on SS has a successful night and new year with what ever you're doing. I've learned valuable things since being here, hope to prospure more in the new year.


I'm going in, 2010 :cheer: :box: :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Darko J.

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Maybe there's an open air firework show in town. It would be an opportunity to meet new people. I'm kind of in the same boat actually. No friends, no family, no girl. Nothing. But hey, it's a hard lesson to do my best in 2010. Like Pook said, mother nature will punish you if you don't obey her.
 

actionjaxson

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just get together with your friends and get drunk. better than staying home by yourself.
 

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You guys should see if any of the big hotels in your area are having parties. They usually do, and these parties fill up with people who either had nothing else to do or planned to go from the outset. You get a room, meet girls, it's New Years', and Bob is your uncle.
 

returningchamp

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i have plans... but a friend of mine who's an internet dating junkie... says that tonight is the best night of the year to meet women for ONSs online.... there's so many people who don't want to be alone tonight... makes sense to me.

i just checked craigslist for my area and it's filled with people "not wanting to be alone tonight"...


normal women? probably not.... but for a ONS - what does it matter? just wrap it up tight.... and keep the wallet guarded even tighter
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rocksoff

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**** new years party's.....I deposited 40$ on full tilt poker and have it up to 650$ in 4 days....Im gamblin all night
 
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