"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This stuff works, now in over my head

Chanttojah

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Played it perfectly, unavailable pretty much uninterested even vanished on her for 2 weeks for another plate, Now she asked me to do a "long term experiment in sensuality" with her. No strings attached, shes been coming over to my place I get all of her clothes off and we mess around all night,
However she is reluctant go let me close, Says be patient and your mind will be blown etc, Im not that into her I would close the deal but I suspect she is trying to corner me into something, her texts and phone calls have been increasing.
How do I close without, getting suckered into something?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pdx1138

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cut her off completely, get another one.

I wouldn't put up with that after 3 dates 4 at most.
 

Aaron B

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quit letting her take the lead

when she proposed that silly sensuality thing, you should have nixed it

i would have been like "what the hell are you talking about woman?!?"
 
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