almost perfect
Don Juan
pending details, it seems that once you have your own
"game" in check, most of what is read on this site should be taken with a grain of salt.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This stuff really works. Play the game and you WILL win.
- Thread starter AMF
- Start date
"game" in check, most of what is read on this site should be taken with a grain of salt.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i think a lot of guys here underestimate the power of kino. It's a very powerful arsenal. If you can talk confidently with the right attitude and body language and !kino!, and play it right, it can make the girl melt.
All about showing confidence in an unneedy way.
Funny this post came up about showing interest. Honestly i think what happens is often the guy and girl will play push and pull. if the guy pulls back, she'll push and show interest. But i think the key is the girl does her part (show signs), and leaves enough ground for you to start pursuing her (all girls want to be pursued). If the guy pulls back, she'll start pushing. Often that's how it goes. It's tough to maintain a balance, but it must be maintained.
All about showing confidence in an unneedy way.
Funny this post came up about showing interest. Honestly i think what happens is often the guy and girl will play push and pull. if the guy pulls back, she'll push and show interest. But i think the key is the girl does her part (show signs), and leaves enough ground for you to start pursuing her (all girls want to be pursued). If the guy pulls back, she'll start pushing. Often that's how it goes. It's tough to maintain a balance, but it must be maintained.
word! theres only so much one can learn at a certain time
I'm 18 and I know that my game is much more superior than it was half a year ago, I got what I needed but I still visit everyday just for fun
I know I'll prolly meed some more stuff later on in life but right now I'm just reading stuff for the heck of it
Thnaks SoSuave
Dr Box
Don Juan
Yeah, but if she came on real strong the first time you met her you would take a step back because she is to easy, so you would think their is something wrong with her, I have actually turned down a casual sex partner because she phoned me up after the first time we got together and said "hi.....uh do you want to just be f#$% buddies" (a longer convo then that but you get the idea). The reason I turned her down was because she instigated it and I thought to myself well I already have this one she is hooked.....next. I hope that makes sense.
Congrats on your catch. However, don't forget that she speaks for ONE WOMAN. I've dated a few girls back in my sosuave days who I got NOWHERE with because they needed that aggressive/dominant balance. They were passive so they needed me to make the moves, set the plans, take initiative.
Second, I think there is something else beyond the surface here. She said she would have bolted if you "made your move straight away", but the fact that you didn't isn't what 'got her'. If 10 guys just decided to NOT make a move, she's not going to sudden swoon for all 10. She apparently was into you, and the fact that you didn't threaten her with overbearing moves just kept you in the game.
Good work.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
By the way, if you are turning down girls BECAUSE they like you and decided to be real and not play games with you, there may be something screwed up in your self-esteem department.
Funny how we bytch about women who give us the run around and play games, yet when they are real and come clean, we decide to move on.
( . )( . )
Banned
:crackup: Owned himself.
hydrocodone
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 26, 2005
- Messages
- 41
- Reaction score
- 0
ive been desireless to a few hb's because they didnt mentally stimulate me(i know, lame)but it really did drive them nuts! this one hot chick that tons of guys wanted just didnt do it for me personality-wise and she couldnt believe i wasnt interested that she turned obessive over me. this "desirelessness" can come out naturally sometimes and its a little harder when you fake it. but it freaken works wonders on hb's
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I got that problem. But its me that gets obessive. Can't belive she are not intressted when got alot more hotter girls then her. For my ego i had her hooked before but i blown it, she offered ***** but i did'nt take it, (long story).
Is like i can't belive it when she ljbf me. Is like hey how could you ljbf me my ego says iam better then all dudes you will ever meet.
You should be happy i show you attention. Then i can't let her go because it feels like i have to prove something for myself that she does whant me, and if she does i know i dont whant her, so thats really mess with my mind. I almost developed oneits for this girl. Think of her alot because of that. But truefully i dont like her personality or her look, of course i could bang her else i don't thik i had worked in my mind. But this girls i maybe a hb5 so my friends think iam nuts when i think about her. When i have a girl that works as a modell and are damn hot.
not thanks to sosuave its you.
besides nothings alway percfect and u dealt with it.
ermm just a lil rant
sosuave dosnt rule your life.
i take responsility for my actions if i did good it came from within..some guys can read posts forever and not gain nothing infact the minimum for a poster here should be 5 years tops after that if you are still here something lacking.
Last edited:
razors_edge
New Member
- Joined
- Oct 27, 2005
- Messages
- 6
- Reaction score
- 0
it's because of guys like you who f*ck girls up in the head and make them play stupid games with the other guys.
