"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This stuff just does not stop...

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Well if you read my last post, about a girl that I kind of like, that brought her, J, formal date to my apartment last weekend (Yea I've decided I shouldn't care but deep down I do and it was real fvcked up).

So get this, last night there were about 30 people in my apartment (J not being one).

I ended up fvcking a HB 6 at around 2:30 3:00 in the morning. Then my phone vibrated like 4 or 5 times and I look at it after I'm done and it was texts from all my friends saying J was here. So now that was awkward, I walked out of my room with this girl and theres the girl I want. Now eventually she just ended up leaving and I texted her saying Hey, why'd you leave. NO ANSWER.

I think shes pist about this little encounter I had, but when it all comes down to it, she got a taste of her own medicine (If you read my last thread about her metaphorically spitting on me).

So why am I posting this now? Because after last night I realized she actually does have feelings for me or else she wouldn't have left last night. So now I gotta figure out how to turn this around into a positive and hopefully snag this girl back.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Smells like teen spirit... Or is it teen angst?
 
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i didnt see the original thread that you are referring to, but just because she left doesnt mean that she has feelings for you.

it just means that she felt trumpted. she probably loved the attention from you and when she saw you with someone else felt like she didnt get it anymore.


but again, im only speculating i havent seen this original thread.
 
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If she's interested it'll more likely increase her attraction knowing some other woman wants you. This is pretty basic.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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UPDATE: Okay, I did not add in the fact that I was quite intoxicated, but hey everyone here is wasted on thurs, fri, sat lol. Anyway my friend just informed me that I was talking to him and my other friend in my roomate's bedroom. We were talking about how they were all texting me while I was having sex saying that J was coming over blah blah. While I'm sitting there telling them this story about me and that girl and the fact that they kept texting me, J and her friend walk in (apparently) and then J signaled for her friend to come with her to the bathroom. So now I realized that she must have felt awkward...Do I say soemthing to her about it or not?
 
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Alright, well last night she was over (again). Only I was drunk, she didn't drink because her mom was here and they wanted to get up really early today and go around campus. So I didn't really spit any game to her at all. I mean I talked to her for a little while, not about anything in particular really just making conversation. So now after they left, my friend and I (his GF is her (J) best friend) are sitting in his room talking. He goes off saying that she now wants me more....which I can see where he is saying that just because now she knows I can have other girls and I'm not just waiting around for her.

But she didn't show it last night. Why?

Also, one of my friends from home (girl), heard that I had sex with this other girl. When I asked her how she said well J told this girl in my sorority and then she told me. That girl that J told is her best friend. So clearly she cares or else she wouldn't be telling her best friend this.

And to top it all off, its mother's night at J's sorority and she and about 3 or 4 of her friends are coming here with their moms to drink and party. So with her mom here what should I be doing to her?
 
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For gods sake, there's FAR too much drama here, and I don't even understand what the hell is going on, it's like an episode of home and away.

Take things back to basics, if she wants to play stupid games, LET HER. She's won the battle here, because you're thinking about her non-stop. You should have other/better things to be occupying your precious time.

Here's what I'd do:

1) Stop being a girl. Whatever games she's playing, well thats her perogative. I'm not going to partake in games.

2) When I DO see her, I'm the awesome guy that she liked/should like.

3) Don't get hammered when she's not drinking.

That girl that J told is her best friend. So clearly she cares or else she wouldn't be telling her best friend this.
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You obviously don't understand women. They LOVE to gossip. Doesn't matter wether they know you. You can have passed her in the street 3 years ago, and she'll still have an opinion on you.

Let it go. Find something else to do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WesCottII said:
For gods sake, there's FAR too much drama here, and I don't even understand what the hell is going on, it's like an episode of home and away.

Take things back to basics, if she wants to play stupid games, LET HER. She's won the battle here, because you're thinking about her non-stop. You should have other/better things to be occupying your precious time.

Here's what I'd do:

1) Stop being a girl. Whatever games she's playing, well thats her perogative. I'm not going to partake in games.

2) When I DO see her, I'm the awesome guy that she liked/should like.

3) Don't get hammered when she's not drinking.



You obviously don't understand women. They LOVE to gossip. Doesn't matter wether they know you. You can have passed her in the street 3 years ago, and she'll still have an opinion on you.

Let it go. Find something else to do.
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wescott is very wise.
 
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You are not a very smart guy.... You want the girl that made out with another guy IN FRONT OF YOU BACK????

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