This Sluut I'm Seeing Wants Commitment?

[Julian]

treat her like the slut she loves to be bro. dont need to complicate this chit. let your FA bros have a swing at her...its the right thing to do. lol.

 

[soulforge]

soulfourge what are you fvcking crazy? You can't get into a relationship with this woman. Just keep fvckin her. Whenever she offers to help you paint your house just tell her "no I'm good." And that's it.

She offers to come over when you don't want her to? Tell her you're busy working or out with friends. My favorite excuse is working out at the gym, because then I don't have to answer my phone for a few hours. Don't reject her all the time, but just enough to keep her from coming over all the time. When you do meet up with her, do something nice for her and then pound the living brains out of her in the bedroom. And in this situation, MAKE SURE you spin plates and don't develop feelings for this girl. Once you develop feelings for a slvt mark my words you will be coming back here for months writing up threads about how miserable you are and why didn't she pick up her phone and how she keeps dumping you and why is she so fvcked up.

The two biggest warning signs of bad girlfriend material are (1) an extremely slvtty past (to be determined by your own moral veiwpoint) and (2) lack of a father figure in her life.

You have been duly warned. And if she really starts bringing up commitment and a relationship etc, just tell her to take it slow because you just got out of a very long painful relationship that was really hard on you.

Yes Bradd.. Seriously a relationship with this chick obviously is out of the question, without a doubt..

I just wanted to know how to get the balance right.. she is trying her best to get me to do more GF chit with her..

i.e doing my dishes, wanting to decorate for me.. wants me to go on holiday with her etc etc..

Recently I agreed to go to a dance music festival with her for two nights... but I have told her I cannot make it now..

As to me that's the kinda chit you do with your GF?

Problem is, since I cancelled it, she is pulling away a little.. so i think getting the balance right is key here..

She wants more than just FB with me, but I absolutely do not want to give her that, but I don't want to put this chick off me completely either..

Your right, I should keep it to seeing her once a week, maybe take a her out locally for a couple of drinks.. Then bang her stupid and send her home the next day... be a little nice, but only a little.

This chick is driving 2 hours from another city, to come see me... thats nearly 4 hours worth of driving a time..

 

[soulforge]

treat her like the slut she loves to be bro. dont need to complicate this chit. let your FA bros have a swing at her...its the right thing to do. lol.

Yeh fam, I just wana have a little fun, keep her in rotation as a plate.. she likes to be treated like a sluut... why not just give her what she wants!!

 

[Reykhel]

01. Met her on pof

......probably no point in reading any further.

When you no longer feel the need to write threads about slags that you met on plenty of fatties, you know you are starting to
make inner game progress....

When you no longer need to scrap the bottom of the barrel and degenerate yourself by using sites and dating apps such as plenty of
fatties and tinder, you know you are continuing to make great strides......

Internet dating is the domain of the woman, mostly the socially rejected woman.

granted.....baby steps, so let's start where you're at.....

I feel like she is trying to push towards a relationship![/QUOTE]


Mentality: "she's a slag from POF......she's one of several serving my sexual needs"

ALL OF THE REST IS SIMPLY WHITE NOISE AND NONSENSE.

The way you are analyzing her, it seems like you are coming at things with a monogamy as goal mindset:

Well i have been banging her once or twice a week, for the last 3 months..

Be disciplined....if you must continue with her as a plate (WHICH YOU SHOULDN'T BUT NOT FOR THE REASONS THAT YOU THINK), keep it at a maximum of once per week. Be strong in this....You've got to learn to say NO. You can only see her max once a week.....
she or anyone else doesn't like it? Let the chips fall where they more. Plenty of fish in the sea after all, right? (Yes, facetious)

.....DO NOT STAY OVERNIGHT OR LET HER STAY THE NIGHT.

You are not mentally strong enough to detach. Therefor have a no stay over policy. Put the bytch in a taxi.....too difficult? Get her gone first thing. Better the first option though, you'll cultivate a ruthless mentality.

She is happy to have 2-3 guys fukking her at once, with me present with her off course.

No other c0ck in the bedroom policy. To even suggest this she should be kicked to the herb. Can't understand fellas that are happy with other c0ck in the bedroom. That's a line that does't need crossing.

So now this chick wants to see more and more of me.. she wants me to go on holiday with her.. wants to decorate my house for me..

She's pushing her frame. You accept her frame (weak) or you demonstrate a stronger frame (yes)

The question remains.......How solid and defined is your frame?

Do you even know..........



If you're spinning plates without exclusivity why should you care what's she's doing...

Have you ever thought about....em.....wrapping it up yourself.

Personal opinion? This is a great opportunity for you to demonstrate that you're a man with a backbone and a man capable
of creating options....

......Cut her off. Sacrifice this one for your own self esteem. Show you're capable of letting it go and get another.

 

[Reykhel]

Lol, plate. Ur smarter than to even need to ask.

You'd like to think that wouldn't you.....

This is the same guy who's pining for a 52 year old alcoholic slag who dumped him....

Baby steps.....

 

[soulforge]

You'd like to think that wouldn't you.....

This is the same guy who's pining for a 52 year old alcoholic slag who dumped him....

Baby steps.....

I wouldn't dream of considering this chick, anything more than I plate...

My question was not, if I should progress into a relationship with her.. fuk no, wouldn't dream of it.

My question was how best to dodge her attempts at getting commitment from me... she is trying her best to do GF chit with me..

And it was me who dumped that 52 year old c@nt... get it right man!

 

[stovepipe]

You'd like to think that wouldn't you.....

This is the same guy who's pining for a 52 year old alcoholic slag who dumped him....

Baby steps.....

He dumped her

 

[sazc]

You'd like to think that wouldn't you.....

This is the same guy who's pining for a 52 year old alcoholic slag who dumped him....

Baby steps.....

Stop

 

[soulforge]

I'm thinking of just dropping this chick... she wants more from me, and if I don't give her that, she soon enough go start fuking somebody else...

So doesn't feel worth while getting involved with this chick...

She already is acting a little cold, because i cancelled going to a music festival with her...

So i'm thinking a simple, this isn't working for me text will do the trick?

 

[soulforge]

UPDATE

ok the situation has taken a turn...

Firstly the suggestion that me and her have 3sums etc was my idea... and it seemed like she was also keen on it.

Especially the thought of two guys banging her.. but today she sent me a text message claiming she cannot see me anymore because she cannot sleep with other people...

She wished me good luck, and ended it...

I text her back and told her, i did not EXPECT you to sleep with other people it was just a suggestion..

But I wished her good luck and said bye...


She then did a complete U-Turn and said she wants to carry on seeing me, aslong as there are no other people involved...

So i told her that is cool... so now she wants to see me again...

The fact is...

01. Met her on POF

02. She fuked me within 2 hours of meeting her

03. She has proven to walk away when things dont suite her

04. She spoke to her friend about being unhappy about 3sums etc, so her friend planted the seed in her mind to end it.


Guess i will continue banging this chick, just as a once a week plate.. no more than that


Will have to give my boys the bad news that the gang bang ******* party has been called off.. Haha!!

 

[soulforge]

I treat all girls from POF as low quality from default..

I just thought it would be fun to sluut this one up, for some 3sums etc... but hey ho, can't always get what you want lol

 

[CMNILS87]

Your right man... I know this is wall to wall red flags.. sex is crazy.. but chicks like this always result in trouble!


I'm taking 10 steps back.. I'll drop her ass if need be..

Thank you guys.. I needed the wake up call...

Man i love this forum!

Just give excuses. Wrap it up, you're a busy man with work and can't hang more than 1-2 times a week. She's pushing for exclusivity and it bothers you cause it's way too fast. You're still casually dating and banging. If she was serious about a relationship she would've ditched the other dudes long ago.

Her asking for a relationship after 2-3 months makes her sound like she's 22 or so. She's going back and forth with emotions and is impulsive. Keep her as a plate, but watch out for erratic behavior and princess syndrome.

 

[soulforge]

Just give excuses. Wrap it up, you're a busy man with work and can't hang more than 1-2 times a week. She's pushing for exclusivity and it bothers you cause it's way too fast. You're still casually dating and banging. If she was serious about a relationship she would've ditched the other dudes long ago.

Her asking for a relationship after 2-3 months makes her sound like she's 22 or so. She's going back and forth with emotions and is impulsive. Keep her as a plate, but watch out for erratic behavior and princess syndrome.

I need to explain.. it was ME who suggested to her that she takes part in a 3sum and 4sum with me..

At first she seemed keen on the idea... but today she ENDED things with me...

Her reason, is she cannot fuk other people... she only wants to fuk me...

So the gang bang is cancelled lol... i will have to disappoint my mates...

She has now done a complete U-Turn and wants to continue seeing me, aslong as nobody else is involved, and I am honest with her about other woman..

I may aswell continue banging her, but i ABSOLUTELY do not want a relationship with her.

Girls off POF are only good to bang, nothing more..

I will have to strike a balance to keep banging her once or pushing it twice a week, and keep her somewhat happy..

I have a date with another chick on Sunday, so possibly get another plate on board....

 

[Reykhel]

He dumped her

Really? and yet four months later, he's writing post after post about her in the no contact thread....

Plenty of inner game issues going on here.

 

[Reykhel]

I need to explain.. it was ME who suggested to her that she takes part in a 3sum and 4sum with me..

So the gang bang is cancelled lol... i will have to disappoint my mates...

So you wanted to bang her......with your MALE FRIENDS.......

You are suspect and you have deep inner game issues.

I may aswell continue banging her, but i ABSOLUTELY do not want a relationship with her.

Do yourself a favor. Forget about a relationship with anybody. Just completely get it out of your head...

Or even just put a time limit on it......"I will not even consider a relationship with anyone for at least 3 years"

Learn how to spin plates. Learn how to manage your plates. Develop some iron clad rules.....and stick to them.

Let them enter your frame. Be solid in your frame "No relationships. not commitment"

Forget about having threesomes with men, that's not healthy at all....unless your bisexual or something?

Fvcking boundaries man. How about threesomes with WOMEN.

Get your head together.