this situation is driving me nuts!! help me out guys/ girls!!!( long post)

[TheMasterOfBation]

Ok the story is pretty long bare with me. so basically i have been trying to get my ex girl back for 2 years now. about a month ago i bumped into her at court (im a cop and was drawing up a case with the ada) and started talking to her. asked her out that night and she agreed. went to the movies and she started to put the moves on me. i was of course happy. from then on we started to call/text each other more frequently seeming as though she was interested. we went a couple of more times with success gettin a handjob on our most recent get together. the text were gettin good. i was gettin the "i miss u" texts which i always look forward to reading seeing as though i wanted her back, but her work load started to pile in. she is takin 18 credits and works and just recieved a second job, on top of that she wittnessed a friend of hers pass away. of course im there for her to console her and what not. i noticed the calls/texts/dates were slowing down. of course i realized she was busy so thought nothing of i visited her myspace page to leave her a comment and found something interesting:

her most recent ex had left her a comment which was odd to me so i questioned her about it. she said he was going through something and she was there to help him. i believed her she is not the type to lie so i think. again she would distance herself from me a lil more. yesterday i saw and even starnegr comment from her ex which said "ayayae i miss my future perfect wifey muahhzz". this had me baffled i called her and we spoke..she said this dude is also trying to get back with her and that shes going through so much crap she wants us to leave her alone now. the guy knows about me. but what i don't get is why was she so interested earlier and now so distant? is she just overwhelmed by everything happening?? now i don't know if her and her most recent ex did anything but i told sure ill give u the space u need just let me know what u decide on. i came home just now to c me deleted from her myspace. and seeing something that she is married or something but her profile is on private so i don't know. i don't know how something so great went sour so fast. what do u guys think i should do?? i really like her a lot and have been trying a while to get her back i really don't want to let her go. any ideas?? sorry for the long post just pouring my heart out.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Man. Everyone here will give the same advice .
If your question is HOW TO GET MY EX BACK , the answer is DONT .

Dont get her back . Just go out , approach and get other girls .
You show yourself pretty AFC about calling her after each comment . Just pretend that you dont care.

She said to leave her alone . Ok , leave her alone . Its her loss .

As i said before , start fishing other fishes.

 

[Nighthawk]

She wanted to see if she could get you back as an ego boost and a back-up plan. But then a better offer came along so she threw your heart in the bin.

There's women much better out there for you, find them.

 

[DevanE]

Alrighty...let's start with a few things first.

Your "GF" is a liar to the 200th degree you know why...? Because of this:-

but her work load started to pile in. she is takin 18 credits and works and just recieved a second job, on top of that she wittnessed a friend of hers pass away.

How the fuk you take 18 credits and work...? and not only work have a second job...? Either she's taking some easy ass classes but even then having 2 jobs doesn't even sound relevant. To top it off IF she is ooooh so busy how does she have time for Myspace...? For someone who is a cop you sure don't sound too smart. Your "GF" doesn't like you, she doesn't care about, actually she could give 2 sh**s if you died today because she will STILL be on myspace getting her rocks off.

she said this dude is also trying to get back with her and that shes going through so much crap she wants us to leave her alone now. the guy knows about me. but what i don't get is why was she so interested earlier and now so distant? is she just overwhelmed by everything happening?? now i don't know if her and her most recent ex did anything but i told sure ill give u the space u need just let me know what u decide on.

Why do you care...? Why are you on myspace...? How old are you guy...? I'll tell this to you right now plain and simple. You "GF" doesn't have any RESPECT for you whatsoever because of the way she toyed with your emotions. Do you realize what she did...? She just used you for attention or just to kill time because she had NOTHING better to do!!!!!. You really need to open your eyes and see the reality for what it is. I think you just don't want to admit to yourself that you will never get her back EVER because it's out of your CONTROL that's why your frustrated and making this post.

BTW you don't ever let a woman make a decision about where you "stand" especially asking her how she FEELS about it. WAKE UP THE MATRIX HAS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Say no to hors.