"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been an AFC all my life and never thought i had the balls to even say hi to strangers let alone get a bunch girls numbers whenever the hell i want.

Mostly thanks to this website I feel totally great about myself now.

I went to a college campus today for 3 hours or so and wound up walking away with 10 girls phone numbers. I was like holy s hit this is the f ucking gold mine for hot girls.

I have a thing for punk/gothic looking girls so 6 of the 10 numbers are of that category.

Haha damn i never thought it could be this easy ....

I've learned that basicly if you get off your ass and you can acomplish anything you want.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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getting off your ass is the axiom by which every successfull man lives.
 

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Exactly! Getting off your ass and doing something about it pretty much gets you anywhere.
 

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HA HA !! Minty fresh, we have another RAFC that's starting to catch on.
 

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There's no arguing that colleges are a plethora of hbs. My only problem is the approach: it's too easy in class because you have common ground (ie: "this class is a snoozer eh?") and it's not too hard in the cafeteria either ("anyone sitting here?") but unfortunately the ones I reaaaaaaaally want I always just see in passing along the pathway or while she's walking along talking with some friends. Obstacles I shall soon overcome dammit! :mad:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Approaches are easy at colleges man, it feels a lot like a predator-prey thing. Today i just looked for pretty girls that were my type and if they were on the phone or buying a book or something I'd wait a few moments as to not be rude. (I know i could've interupted at least 3 girls cellphone conversations, but what can i say... they'll still be there when they hang up).

I used the line "I noticed you when i was walking by and i told myself id really regret it if i didn't meet you, Hi my names xxxx *handshake*"

was as simple as that... feels almost powerful to have such social confidence
 

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Update on meee:

Went out to the same place two days later (yesterday). I was feeling on top of my game and nothing could phase me.

I even saw a girl i dated awhile who stopped returning my phone calls. I was polite to her but also brushed her off very quicky (no desire to talk to her).

Approached one girl, who was sitting on the floor waiting for class to start, when i started talking to her i saw that she wasn't as pretty as i originally thought. I kept trying to get out of the conversation (walking away etc) but she just kept it going hahaha ... i was laughing inside my head.

I walked past a girl whos number i had gotten the other day, decided to say whats up... wound up sitting down with her and talking for like 40 minutes (shes just easy to talk to and joke around about sex). I found out shes bisexual and will probably be pretty open about fooling around early on. Then one of her friends came, i introduced myself and made damn ****ing sure he didn't totally disinclude me from the conversation :D . I guess she has a routine that she goes and hangs out with em everyday or something because i had the impression she was waiting for him, They left and i was feeling a little discouraged that she was the one to end the conversation and not me ... hehe oh well i told her that "i might call you sometime .... maybe"... hehe smoothh.

Noticed some girl in sunglasses with her friend not even trying to hide the fact that they were checking me out i went over there. Singled out the hotter girl with the sunglasses on, reached over took her glasses off and said im just making sure you're not the phantom of the opera under there(we were inside afterall no sun haha) she laughed. Talked for about 10 minutes, being nice to the unattractive girl but directing most comments to the hot one. Asked for her number she said that she wasn't sure. I shook her hand and said nice to meet you and stood up ... she was all like "wait come back heres my number"....score.

Then i made the mistake of talking to some freaky ass girl who was totally not good looking and rude to me. Since i already went into this with another therad i won't even talk about it.

....yay another good sarging day, gonna go out again today woot.
 
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