“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This site only for white people?
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Tyrone Biggums
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I'm Black and I think the concepts of this site apply to all races.
diablo
Master Don Juan
The only 2 sites I know of specifically promoting themselves as being primarily for blacks are:
www.pimphop.com - this board seems to promote the "PIMP PLAYA" style of seduction, taking a disproportionate amount of pride solely determined by the color of a person's skin. However, since I'm Caucasian, I can't tell if the advice they give would be of any use... determine this for yourself. However, I'll post here an excerpt of the first thread I came across from there, entitled "SUP ALL U REAL PIMPS!! PLA help me with skool NOTES!!", in the hopes that it might help:
HEY<< if u like a girl in your class< and she sits Right next to you<< and u gotta be quite in class, the only way to start convo, is on NOTes to send each other<< SO please all u pimps n pimpets, WHAts the 1st thing i should write on the NOte to send to her<< to start a convo<< PLEase tell ME!! Write me asap!! PLease tell me exact sentences LIke what to write down<< BE smoothe about it<< AND if a giel send u a note 1st saying, "whats yur name" what should i write back to her, to keep it smoothe<<!!!! AND THANKs NAppY PIMP< he truly is a PIMPP< keep it up, please help me out with this 1
www.becomeaplayer.com (Some useful advice, but for the most part I'm not impressed with anything they have to offer - most seems a marketing plug for different colognes and 'aphrodisiacs' - going so far as to say that aphrodisiacs are essential if you want to "seduce and attract women", and that if you wear them "women subconsciously detect this product and they are instantly attracted to you!"
www.pimphop.com - this board seems to promote the "PIMP PLAYA" style of seduction, taking a disproportionate amount of pride solely determined by the color of a person's skin. However, since I'm Caucasian, I can't tell if the advice they give would be of any use... determine this for yourself. However, I'll post here an excerpt of the first thread I came across from there, entitled "SUP ALL U REAL PIMPS!! PLA help me with skool NOTES!!", in the hopes that it might help:
HEY<< if u like a girl in your class< and she sits Right next to you<< and u gotta be quite in class, the only way to start convo, is on NOTes to send each other<< SO please all u pimps n pimpets, WHAts the 1st thing i should write on the NOte to send to her<< to start a convo<< PLEase tell ME!! Write me asap!! PLease tell me exact sentences LIke what to write down<< BE smoothe about it<< AND if a giel send u a note 1st saying, "whats yur name" what should i write back to her, to keep it smoothe<<!!!! AND THANKs NAppY PIMP< he truly is a PIMPP< keep it up, please help me out with this 1
www.becomeaplayer.com (Some useful advice, but for the most part I'm not impressed with anything they have to offer - most seems a marketing plug for different colognes and 'aphrodisiacs' - going so far as to say that aphrodisiacs are essential if you want to "seduce and attract women", and that if you wear them "women subconsciously detect this product and they are instantly attracted to you!"
Yotsuya-san
Senior Don Juan
diablo,
That first site wouldn't appeal to the more mature brothers.
That second site, like you said, is too commercial.
I don't think there needs to be any change in technique when it comes to DJing based on what race you are. I will say that the less one rely's on pop-culture (movies, tv shows, music, ect) much of which is racially biased to begin with, then the more likely one is to be successful at DJing women of different races. Assuming that this is the goal to begin with.
That first site wouldn't appeal to the more mature brothers.
That second site, like you said, is too commercial.
I don't think there needs to be any change in technique when it comes to DJing based on what race you are. I will say that the less one rely's on pop-culture (movies, tv shows, music, ect) much of which is racially biased to begin with, then the more likely one is to be successful at DJing women of different races. Assuming that this is the goal to begin with.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
There used to be some threads for Af-Am DJs on this board. Try doing the search. But the principles are universal. Even though we (Blacks) have a more extroverted and direct culture, the general principles of confidence, approach, emotional control are still the same.
From a biological standpoint, there's no such thing as race.
From a biological standpoint, there's no such thing as race.
doesnt matter
im black and it works....the whole thing is just mainly about confidence, actually going out and doing something. i can tell your whole approach is wrong. your worried about wether or not the information is tailored to white or black people...have you tried it?
im black and it works....the whole thing is just mainly about confidence, actually going out and doing something. i can tell your whole approach is wrong. your worried about wether or not the information is tailored to white or black people...have you tried it?
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
The mods always close them though...One thread didnt even have flaming in it and a mod closed it...Aint that some sh1t?
diablo
Master Don Juan
No, what's 'sh1t' is when those threads get out of hand, which virtually all of them do. For some reason, people don't seem to have the ability to take an innocent topic that asks a legitimate question which just happens to involve race and not pervert it into a bitterly racist diatribe. Perhaps if people could learn to control themselves, then problems such as these wouldn't have to be nipped in the bud. As is, by your own statement you said "one thread didn't have flaming in it". One out of how many? There's a precedent with racial threads, and that's that they soon get out of hand. If you want to discuss racial or racist issues, please do a google search and find a different board on which to do so.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Gee. I wonder why... Oh, wait! I just wrote an entire paragraph explaining it!
Read the reply directly above yours.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Nah....There were a couple that had no flaming in them, and the discussion was good cause people were asking questions and they were getting answered, and then they got closed...All well, aint nothing....
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I see a lot of threads about 'pimpin ma wheels' and bling bling snoopdoggyidiot v (insert some black boxers name) in da hud.
So I assume there are quite a lot of black guys on here but I haven't got a clue what they are saying.
So I assume there are quite a lot of black guys on here but I haven't got a clue what they are saying.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What have you tried that didn't work?
FreeStyleZ
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I'm black and can tell you that the stuff on this site works with all females. I've found though (like most people probably have) this **** works ALOT better when a chick is already feelin you... and for me, DJ'ing a black girl is easier for me becuase they like me more. Some white girls don't really go for the bruthas so theres not much you can do in terms of DJ'ing... but i've seen a drastic difference when using the stuff on this site with a sista and with a white chick.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
they're all pink on the inside
lol true
basicly almost everytime that i remember to use this techniques on sistas it has turned out to work out good, the thing is that when i go out and approach a female this site and tips and techniques posted in this site for some reason are like erased from my mind and i end up just "doing me" (translation : saying watever i want that makes me think that its good to say and that will get me to get the female. no offense on the translation)
and like in my thread, sucess sucess sucess, it worked out better than i could ever imagine.
But i was just curious, although the few times ive remembered to used this techniques they have worked most of the time.