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Dhoulmagus said:
Exactly....
We dealing with 2nd stringers, and the occasional free agent baller
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This site is weak at maintaining attraction concepts
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Exactly....
We dealing with 2nd stringers, and the occasional free agent baller
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logicallefty
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Zarky we laugh and call you pathetic too. I would tell you to go but we need a poster woman on here to show the new guys that women are as bad as we say. You do a perfect job helping us prove our concepts. And you know the real reason you come here is because we make your \{}/ tingle and gush more than any man in real life is willing to do for you. Suck it up buttercup.