_sideways_
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 31, 2013
- Messages
- 1,919
- Reaction score
- 218
Dhoulmagus said:
Exactly....
We dealing with 2nd stringers, and the occasional free agent baller
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This site is weak at maintaining attraction concepts
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
- Start date
Exactly....
We dealing with 2nd stringers, and the occasional free agent baller
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
logicallefty
Moderator
Zarky we laugh and call you pathetic too. I would tell you to go but we need a poster woman on here to show the new guys that women are as bad as we say. You do a perfect job helping us prove our concepts. And you know the real reason you come here is because we make your \{}/ tingle and gush more than any man in real life is willing to do for you. Suck it up buttercup.