"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thom25

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Hi guys, my name is thom and i have been a long time lurker here and have to say that there so much valuable info here. Most of it I guess I naturally knew already. The reason why I came here was because of oneitus that has been fading since I came here. So cheers to all.

No questions just ready to discussss :crazy:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Teen Spirit

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I don't know about anyone else but after reading pretty much everything on this site, I have come to realise that it's not really useful at all.

The best posts on this site are the ones that concern self-improvement. Anything that directly relates to picking up women is just nonsense. You've just got to go out there and enjoy yourself. It really shouldn't be taken so seriously.

Focus on yourself, focus on enjoying the moment, focus on improving for the future and women are just a by-product.
 

Wiesman44

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this site definitely helps somebody that's completely in the dark. I was like that a few years ago. it definitely helped me. As far as becoming a PUA, it won't do that.
 

dreamx

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Teen Spirit said:
I don't know about anyone else but after reading pretty much everything on this site, I have come to realise that it's not really useful at all.

The best posts on this site are the ones that concern self-improvement. Anything that directly relates to picking up women is just nonsense. You've just got to go out there and enjoy yourself. It really shouldn't be taken so seriously.

Focus on yourself, focus on enjoying the moment, focus on improving for the future and women are just a by-product.
Thats the best post I have read all day while being here
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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