bearfan34201
Don Juan
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The posts on Living. And taking risks. That's what I was afraid of doing.. Taking those risks that make life exciting and worth while. It was'nt so much hooking up with girls than it was LIVING. You know what scares me alot? Being tied down, having a family with a boring ***** of a wife and missing my "glory days".
And this site has really helped me out. along with learning some things about women, I learned about Living and enjoying everything I got.
Because of taking a risk, I am now seeing a really cute blonde. Would it have been possible if I didnt take that risk of not speaking to her? NO.
She was standing there with 4-5 guys hounding her on stupid questions. And you know what I did? I said to my buddy "**** it.. I'm going to go talk to that girl". And guess who she left with that night? me.
This post really is just me letting out some optimism.
I have "hooked up" with 7 girls in the last 2 months. You think I did that last year? NOPE. I was sad I got with 1 girl last summer and I was depressed when she left for her Ex Boyfriend.
You think I would have been offered jobs by abercrombie 3 times and Hollister once if I did'nt walk into the store dressed and groomed well looking for another hot girl? Hell no. **** last year I would have been worried about going in there(didnt help I had a sweating problem, Got rid of that. Surgery!).
I just wanted to say Thank You to everything and everyone on this website. I don't really believe you have to have 3-5 girls at once( i had 4 going on at one time). I believe what this site mainly should teach is what I'm learning.
1. Take a risk. Read my sig. You live once, Just take a damn chance.
2. Don't be so damn negative all the time. I got rid of all my negative friends and my life has improved a lot. What are they still doing? Ripping on me and smoking and drinking all day with other guys who ***** about life.
3. Be fun, cool, nice, charming. Talk alot. Meet people. What do I look forward to every monday? Friday night. Cause I know it's another weekend of me doing what I want to do. And every friday I tell myself. " this is going to be a great weekend"
4. Listen to some good music. Mojo music. Whatever you want to call it. I listen to ZZTOP- Sharp Dressed man before I go out sometime. CHeesy music? Who cares. It gets me in a good mood, I'll listen to it. Hell I listen to Loverboy-Working for the weekend sometimes LOL.
I still got ALOT to learn but I've made major improvements and alot has to do with some of the posts on here. Really has made a difference.
Thanks
And this site has really helped me out. along with learning some things about women, I learned about Living and enjoying everything I got.
Because of taking a risk, I am now seeing a really cute blonde. Would it have been possible if I didnt take that risk of not speaking to her? NO.
She was standing there with 4-5 guys hounding her on stupid questions. And you know what I did? I said to my buddy "**** it.. I'm going to go talk to that girl". And guess who she left with that night? me.
This post really is just me letting out some optimism.
I have "hooked up" with 7 girls in the last 2 months. You think I did that last year? NOPE. I was sad I got with 1 girl last summer and I was depressed when she left for her Ex Boyfriend.
You think I would have been offered jobs by abercrombie 3 times and Hollister once if I did'nt walk into the store dressed and groomed well looking for another hot girl? Hell no. **** last year I would have been worried about going in there(didnt help I had a sweating problem, Got rid of that. Surgery!).
I just wanted to say Thank You to everything and everyone on this website. I don't really believe you have to have 3-5 girls at once( i had 4 going on at one time). I believe what this site mainly should teach is what I'm learning.
1. Take a risk. Read my sig. You live once, Just take a damn chance.
2. Don't be so damn negative all the time. I got rid of all my negative friends and my life has improved a lot. What are they still doing? Ripping on me and smoking and drinking all day with other guys who ***** about life.
3. Be fun, cool, nice, charming. Talk alot. Meet people. What do I look forward to every monday? Friday night. Cause I know it's another weekend of me doing what I want to do. And every friday I tell myself. " this is going to be a great weekend"
4. Listen to some good music. Mojo music. Whatever you want to call it. I listen to ZZTOP- Sharp Dressed man before I go out sometime. CHeesy music? Who cares. It gets me in a good mood, I'll listen to it. Hell I listen to Loverboy-Working for the weekend sometimes LOL.
I still got ALOT to learn but I've made major improvements and alot has to do with some of the posts on here. Really has made a difference.
Thanks
Keep at it, you can only move up from here.