"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This site has given me the cpr I needed.

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I just registered to this site today though I have been a reader for quite some time.I first just want to say, this site freakin rocks!Ever since I've taken in the advice to be my natural self I've found interacting with girls was really no sweat.I was even able to take a awkward situation and make it work to my advantage.I was a toys r us buying in action figures(since that's one of the things I'm into)and upon getting to the front of the check out line there's this nice looking cashier at the register and I put my products on the counter.Needless to say she looked a me as if trying to hold back a laugh and said,"Don't tell your gonna go home and play with these."I'd usually try to hide this kind of thing but after the advice on this site I didn't care.So I just said,"So what If I am.She then comes with the usual aren't you too old for that?And that's when I busted out with,"That's like saying you're too old to watch cartoons or to old to eat candy.You like candy don't you?Impressed with the comeback she giggles and goes,"Wow you are right that's a really good point.From then on We gelled like we knew each other forever.One of the most kick ass things I did that time around
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Congrats my friend, and your right this site has taught me alot also...i admit i'm going through a bad patch at the moment. (inner game) but apart from that this site has been like GOLD to me aswell.

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Heh heh good stuff.

Another good comeback to her you could've used is "maybe you'd like to come to my place and play with this with me?" ;)
 

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KontrollerX said:
Heh heh good stuff.

Another good comeback to her you could've used is "maybe you'd like to come to my place and play with this with me?" ;)
HAHA kontrollerx, yeah i think you have to say what you want and show that confidence by not caring what anyone else thinks of what you do.
 

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action figures? just make sure you put them all away when ever you have chicks over!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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