"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This site has given me the cpr I needed.

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I just registered to this site today though I have been a reader for quite some time.I first just want to say, this site freakin rocks!Ever since I've taken in the advice to be my natural self I've found interacting with girls was really no sweat.I was even able to take a awkward situation and make it work to my advantage.I was a toys r us buying in action figures(since that's one of the things I'm into)and upon getting to the front of the check out line there's this nice looking cashier at the register and I put my products on the counter.Needless to say she looked a me as if trying to hold back a laugh and said,"Don't tell your gonna go home and play with these."I'd usually try to hide this kind of thing but after the advice on this site I didn't care.So I just said,"So what If I am.She then comes with the usual aren't you too old for that?And that's when I busted out with,"That's like saying you're too old to watch cartoons or to old to eat candy.You like candy don't you?Impressed with the comeback she giggles and goes,"Wow you are right that's a really good point.From then on We gelled like we knew each other forever.One of the most kick ass things I did that time around
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Congrats my friend, and your right this site has taught me alot also...i admit i'm going through a bad patch at the moment. (inner game) but apart from that this site has been like GOLD to me aswell.

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Heh heh good stuff.

Another good comeback to her you could've used is "maybe you'd like to come to my place and play with this with me?" ;)
 

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KontrollerX said:
Heh heh good stuff.

Another good comeback to her you could've used is "maybe you'd like to come to my place and play with this with me?" ;)
HAHA kontrollerx, yeah i think you have to say what you want and show that confidence by not caring what anyone else thinks of what you do.
 

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action figures? just make sure you put them all away when ever you have chicks over!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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