"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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this sh*t works

kingwilliam

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First let me say that for the most part, I have my own style when it comes to picking up women. I am more of a shoot from the hip, improv kinda guy....

Last night I went out with a friend to some bars in Nashville, TN. I saw a target and I went for it. (probably a 9.1) I was basically just being myself, but I took time watch myself in action. I produced a simple but effective opener..........I progressed to kino....I noticed that literally 25 seconds after I touched her arm as I said something, she grabbed my arm. I mirrored her posture, her tone, her energy level...................told some jokes, got her laughing, ..................made silly jokes abouut her huge purse..............I got her number, but didn't leave..........I stuck around and ending up making out with her at the bar....................then she asked me where I was staying...........I took her back to my room and the rest is history. This site rocks, I love you guys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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IMO, Kino is essential when it comes to attracting women. Kino will lead to more touching, sexual touch, and finally - sex.

If you REALLY want to escalate your game, try creating social proof in your settings. Women will feed off each others' competition and jealousy. It's really amazing to see how competitive women are when they want something. Ever see women clawing at each other over a bargain bin full of clothes? They'll do the same thing when it comes to a desirable man.
 

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:up:

Good on you, kingwilliam.

:yes: :yes: @ Desdinova's points.
 

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Desdinova said:
If you REALLY want to escalate your game, try creating social proof in your settings. Women will feed off each others' competition and jealousy. It's really amazing to see how competitive women are when they want something. Ever see women clawing at each other over a bargain bin full of clothes? They'll do the same thing when it comes to a desirable man.
One of the best weapons in my arsenal....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kingwilliam said:
First let me say that for the most part, I have my own style when it comes to picking up women. I am more of a shoot from the hip, improv kinda guy....

Last night I went out with a friend to some bars in Nashville, TN. I saw a target and I went for it. (probably a 9.1) I was basically just being myself, but I took time watch myself in action. I produced a simple but effective opener..........I progressed to kino....I noticed that literally 25 seconds after I touched her arm as I said something, she grabbed my arm. I mirrored her posture, her tone, her energy level...................told some jokes, got her laughing, ..................made silly jokes abouut her huge purse..............I got her number, but didn't leave..........I stuck around and ending up making out with her at the bar....................then she asked me where I was staying...........I took her back to my room and the rest is history. This site rocks, I love you guys.
We need details.... like, what was your opener?
 

kingwilliam

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My opener had something to do with the two of sticking together because we were both so beautiful...........she thought it was funny. I was buzzing from 3 or 4 beers. As far as the social value is concerned **** was going my way. I knew several people in the establishment including several hot women who would casually come by and say hi....................
 

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kingwilliam said:
First let me say that for the most part, I have my own style when it comes to picking up women. I am more of a shoot from the hip, improv kinda guy....

Last night I went out with a friend to some bars in Nashville, TN. I saw a target and I went for it. (probably a 9.1) I was basically just being myself, but I took time watch myself in action. I produced a simple but effective opener..........I progressed to kino....I noticed that literally 25 seconds after I touched her arm as I said something, she grabbed my arm. I mirrored her posture, her tone, her energy level...................told some jokes, got her laughing, ..................made silly jokes abouut her huge purse..............I got her number, but didn't leave..........I stuck around and ending up making out with her at the bar....................then she asked me where I was staying...........I took her back to my room and the rest is history. This site rocks, I love you guys.

so basically you were mimizing her posture, tone and making her think in her mind you were 'complatiable'...

your probably onto something here, I always here the good pick up artists are the ones that like chameloins that always change to the particular girl.
 
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