"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this sh*t works

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First let me say that for the most part, I have my own style when it comes to picking up women. I am more of a shoot from the hip, improv kinda guy....

Last night I went out with a friend to some bars in Nashville, TN. I saw a target and I went for it. (probably a 9.1) I was basically just being myself, but I took time watch myself in action. I produced a simple but effective opener..........I progressed to kino....I noticed that literally 25 seconds after I touched her arm as I said something, she grabbed my arm. I mirrored her posture, her tone, her energy level...................told some jokes, got her laughing, ..................made silly jokes abouut her huge purse..............I got her number, but didn't leave..........I stuck around and ending up making out with her at the bar....................then she asked me where I was staying...........I took her back to my room and the rest is history. This site rocks, I love you guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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IMO, Kino is essential when it comes to attracting women. Kino will lead to more touching, sexual touch, and finally - sex.

If you REALLY want to escalate your game, try creating social proof in your settings. Women will feed off each others' competition and jealousy. It's really amazing to see how competitive women are when they want something. Ever see women clawing at each other over a bargain bin full of clothes? They'll do the same thing when it comes to a desirable man.
 
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Good on you, kingwilliam.

:yes: :yes: @ Desdinova's points.
 
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Desdinova said:
If you REALLY want to escalate your game, try creating social proof in your settings. Women will feed off each others' competition and jealousy. It's really amazing to see how competitive women are when they want something. Ever see women clawing at each other over a bargain bin full of clothes? They'll do the same thing when it comes to a desirable man.
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One of the best weapons in my arsenal....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kingwilliam said:
First let me say that for the most part, I have my own style when it comes to picking up women. I am more of a shoot from the hip, improv kinda guy....

Last night I went out with a friend to some bars in Nashville, TN. I saw a target and I went for it. (probably a 9.1) I was basically just being myself, but I took time watch myself in action. I produced a simple but effective opener..........I progressed to kino....I noticed that literally 25 seconds after I touched her arm as I said something, she grabbed my arm. I mirrored her posture, her tone, her energy level...................told some jokes, got her laughing, ..................made silly jokes abouut her huge purse..............I got her number, but didn't leave..........I stuck around and ending up making out with her at the bar....................then she asked me where I was staying...........I took her back to my room and the rest is history. This site rocks, I love you guys.
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We need details.... like, what was your opener?
 
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My opener had something to do with the two of sticking together because we were both so beautiful...........she thought it was funny. I was buzzing from 3 or 4 beers. As far as the social value is concerned **** was going my way. I knew several people in the establishment including several hot women who would casually come by and say hi....................
 
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kingwilliam said:
First let me say that for the most part, I have my own style when it comes to picking up women. I am more of a shoot from the hip, improv kinda guy....

Last night I went out with a friend to some bars in Nashville, TN. I saw a target and I went for it. (probably a 9.1) I was basically just being myself, but I took time watch myself in action. I produced a simple but effective opener..........I progressed to kino....I noticed that literally 25 seconds after I touched her arm as I said something, she grabbed my arm. I mirrored her posture, her tone, her energy level...................told some jokes, got her laughing, ..................made silly jokes abouut her huge purse..............I got her number, but didn't leave..........I stuck around and ending up making out with her at the bar....................then she asked me where I was staying...........I took her back to my room and the rest is history. This site rocks, I love you guys.
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so basically you were mimizing her posture, tone and making her think in her mind you were 'complatiable'...

your probably onto something here, I always here the good pick up artists are the ones that like chameloins that always change to the particular girl.
 
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