"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This seems about right

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree with you completely, my man. Social media has ruined the modern woman. They're now ALL validation-seeking attention wh0res. Exceptions exist, but few and far between. That's why this forum is here; almost like an anti-validation. It keeps us men (the smart ones, anyway) from contributing to the problem. B*tches don't need help seeking validation. They do fine with their orbiters and social media.
 
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Eternal_water said:
https://scontent-a-lhr.xx.fbcdn.net...6_10203715686709857_3854901050937421464_n.jpg

How on earth do you compete when the dating world is like that?!?!
Sometimes I wish I had been born several decades earlier.
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Quit your complaining and making excuses pal......

So what if a woman gets more attention than a man does.....95% of that attention is coming from "weak sources" aka beta chumps. Ultimately.....a woman receiving attention from other people has no real bearing on YOUR attention. If you are high value......woman notice you like a fish out of water.
 
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BraddH said:
You have been here for two years, 600 post and you dont know the answer?
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I haven't been on here the whole time, I spend way less time on here now than when I first joined but essentially what you say is correct.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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