"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This Revolution...

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I want to play with a little idea here.

So here we all are, talking about an evolution of DJism.

And its about ****ing time.

Seriously, we've been sitting around here refining our technique and honeing our bodies, and perfecting out mindsets for too long. I'm one of those people that likes change to happen all the time, sitting around doing the same old bores me. You don't become a master at something just by sitting around and refining your technique, you become a master by learning new techniques.

And this relaodedism is a new technique, idea, and mindset.

before I play around with the idea I'd just like to give you something to think about.

Imagine a big pool of water. This is in effect the population of the western (for the sake of arguement)world. Now, this big pool of water is in a big bucket, and its sitting in the middle of someone's lawn. So, we've got a big bucket of people. Every droplet in this bucket symbolises a person. And the droplets of water want to be clouds, because that's what dropplets of water do (obviously.). Woo, that fits in with my name and all, aren't I clever?...ahem...:p

So, in this bizzare chemical analogy, the droplets at the surface of the water can evaporate out and up. Now these few are the "naturals". They live, rise above the rest, and rise up to the sky. How pretty.

Now we've got those in the middle. Most just sort of sit there, always second place, always the right hand man. They exist. Some are too close minded too look for a way out, some are screwed through no fault of their own- not that they can't get out, just that its unlikely.

At the bottom we've got where most of us came from. It sucks down there, we weren't even right hand men. There are still people stuck down there, for there will allways be people at the bottom unless everyone is among the clouds.

Now, if you now imagine a bunch of pumps on hoses are stuck into this bucket. These pumps are tiny, and represent things like this site. All around the world there are friends, groups, uncles and wise old men down the street that tell a fortunate few to wake up and do something about life. To **** the laws of chemistry and get up to the top of the bucket (and how to do it). Its tought going from bottom to top, but most make it.

But this new idea we have recognises that all the other droplets in the bucket are pushing up to get to the top too. All the little droplets are constantly trying to go up in the bucket in the same old ways. This new idea, an idea that I'm sure has already been told to a very fortunate few around the world is like sticking a sprinkler bit on the end of the pump that is DJism and getting the rest of the world's constant pushing to hold the whole thing up. The sprinkler is the idea that the world can be used to get you where you want to go. It is both held up by and based on society.

What we have is a concept for liberation this is effectively being held up by society. We fortunate few can go up the hose, through the pump, out of the sprinkler and just shoot up the the clouds, where we all want to be. Of course, as soon as we've gone through, others can follow the same way. Society isn't going anywhere, and the benefits of reloadedism are directly based on society.

No society, no reloadedism, probably no DJism either.

Now I'm not sure if I'm talking about the same stuff as Matrix. I don't know if this is the same idea he is having, but mine is about a concept that's definition is "the ideas of the Don Juan who does not see the world as a hinderance but a means to an end"

I agree society has probably screwed men over, I agree most have been feminised and are left clueless about sex, life and the point of it all. Most live for others and for the wrong reasons.

However, we aren't just men, we are Don Juans. We odn't live for other, we don't even give a **** what others think of us, its part of our charm. We can however use the world to get what we want. I don't necessarily mean this in a "use people" way, more in a "don't fight people" way. Ares put it very well in that we should be changing where the river goes to where we want it to go, not daming it up, filling it with crap, going with the flow, or destroying it completely.

I understand now that from Matrix's post "Reloadedism: A Niche..." I may be thinking of something different. Telling the male population of the world that they should act like men is really not our responcibility. Its not our place to tell people who don't want to hear that the way they are living is wrong. Sure, as a group we can decide that our lives will be better if we don't fall into the catagories society carves for us, but for a lot of people that's all they want. We were at the bottom of the tank for a reason, as a group we are not content with being second place, not because that makes us second place to someone else, but because we want to do better. You can go quite far by just following the rules- hence the people in the middle of the bucket, but to get to the top from nothing you have to sink low enough to get into the pump.

"the ideas of the Don Juan who does not see the world as a hinderance but a means to an end"

That is what I will persue. If it works (which would be nice) then those that listen can reach their end too. Its a funny idea though, it seeks its own destruction. Like the pump, if everyone became clouds, the machine would have nothing to stand on. That would surely be the greatest thing to happen in human history.
 

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allright, my mind is right now practicaly boiling with ideas for this revolution. Now I just need it to cool down a little so I can put them all to use.

Cloud you got a very nice point, cause we cant go around and change every afc in the world, but that is not the point. By being us(DJ's) in todays soceity, by telling people about the ways, by igniting a spark in one, two, three or more afc's hearts we are changing the world.

Thats right guys, the WORLD. Now dont come with any bs thoughts like: oh my, that is impossible, its to big a task, we cannot do it.
We are DJ's, we thirst for difficult tasks, we seek out challenges, we crave something more out of life than todays standards, and trust me my good men toghether we CAN and WILL change our world.
But we cannot make this our lifeswork, our thoughts cannot revolve around this revolution, we cannot live for others.

But by improving ourselfs everyday, by informing people about our soceity, by not giving this p*ssyfied soceiety one inch while we take five yards we are going to change soemehing. All we need is: Strenght, Honor and Pride. Choose to use it in the way you see fit, and let the horns of the Don Juan's fill the sky with promises of a better tomorow....

The God of War has spoken...
 

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Exactly! To be fair its not really a revolution, more another step.

To me, this idea is more about our improvements as beings. To me, its about controlling the world ( mwahahaha:D )- Not being contolled by it. To me, its about living. To me its about repaying this site and the people that have helped me by helping others and myself.

Sure, this is probably a great time to tell your friends that really don't get "it" that they can get help.

But its also a great time to already be here.
 

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to get to the top from nothing you have to sink low enough to get into the pump.
Once again I'm strongly reminded of Fight Club. Ed Norton's character had to "hit bottom" because "it's not until you've lost everything that you're free to do anything."

I like these ideas, although right now it still seems kind of abstract as to exactly how this will apply to our actions.
 
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