"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This really GRINDS MY GEARS!!

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Okay...so I came home from a GREAT spring break very happy...until i heard this...

My girl (at home) is a PRUDE...I've been with her for about a month but I can't like drop her because I wouldn't have a prom date if I did. So anyways today I'm just chillin out with my 3 buds and were talking about chicks obvioulsy and thats when one of my good friends told me something that made me so MAD!...(for the sake of this topic lets call my girl julie and the other girl involved Anna)...Okay so my friend is like yea man before you left Julie told Anna that she doesn't find you sexually fulfilling...Now me, not being a virgin or anything like she is took that VERY offensively. She has been fingered TWICE in her life. Never EVER touched a penis EVER. So I took on the nice approach for the month and stuck to the tit's and hooking up.

So now that I've heard this I feel the need to say somethign to her as I WANT TO FVCK and I was being the nice guy by not pushing it because she hasn't gone very far. Now how the efff should I bring this whole scenario up to her and come out on top?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're not sexually fulfilling but you dont have sex.... seems like a paradox to guys, but it makes sense.

You're not sexy, and you might not be a good kisser. You don't make her feel "alive", you make her feel like a little girl. Try harder.
 
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