"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This really GRINDS MY GEARS!!

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Okay...so I came home from a GREAT spring break very happy...until i heard this...

My girl (at home) is a PRUDE...I've been with her for about a month but I can't like drop her because I wouldn't have a prom date if I did. So anyways today I'm just chillin out with my 3 buds and were talking about chicks obvioulsy and thats when one of my good friends told me something that made me so MAD!...(for the sake of this topic lets call my girl julie and the other girl involved Anna)...Okay so my friend is like yea man before you left Julie told Anna that she doesn't find you sexually fulfilling...Now me, not being a virgin or anything like she is took that VERY offensively. She has been fingered TWICE in her life. Never EVER touched a penis EVER. So I took on the nice approach for the month and stuck to the tit's and hooking up.

So now that I've heard this I feel the need to say somethign to her as I WANT TO FVCK and I was being the nice guy by not pushing it because she hasn't gone very far. Now how the efff should I bring this whole scenario up to her and come out on top?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're not sexually fulfilling but you dont have sex.... seems like a paradox to guys, but it makes sense.

You're not sexy, and you might not be a good kisser. You don't make her feel "alive", you make her feel like a little girl. Try harder.
 
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