"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this really got under my skin / worst day ever

duffman360

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ok about that girl i was going to talk today. i brushed my hair got fixed up up on some cologne and ate some breath mints. i also had confidence and on fear of rejection and the crappiest thing happened the girl did not show up today. this really got under my skin i did all of that for nothing.

worst day ever
as soon as 2nd period comes around the teacher tells that we r havin a pop quiz that counts for as much points as a test i totlly tanked on it. then i got the results of my earth science test back and got a 68 on it this pissed me off. then durin lunch it starts rainin i use my umbrella the get to my next class. when i'm shakin the water off of the umbrella i accidentally press the release button. then
the piece of the unbrella shoots out. f**k my umbrella just broke in 2 pieces. then later on i'm takin the bus home and i'm talkin to my friends. out of nowhere this freshmen starts takin about ripin out peoples spleens. He then pulls out a buzz saw and says that he lives in a bad neighborhood. and then goes on to say that if anyone messed with him he would lop off their arms. Me and my friends heard this and said "this white boy is crazy". This maid me paranoid so as soon as i got off the bus i ran like hell to get home. i've seen where this kid lives and he doesn't live in a bad neighborhood. THIS WHITE BOY IS CRAZY HE MIGHT BE COME A F**KIN PSYCHOPATH WHEN HE GROWS UP!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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smooth guy

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LOL. Why not try see the funny side of it :D
 

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i will do the same thing and talk to her on monday. but in the morning the weather was really good perfect for a conversation to happen
 

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that weird kid got me paranoid for a good 30 mins after i got off the bus but the paranoia is gone now i'm back to normal
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BluEyes

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Check the classifieds for a pair of testicles.
 

i am me

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lol i think u need to laugh at this kinda stuff man. ya u had a bad day, but it could be ALOT worse. keep ur head up and move on
 

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LOL That's sounds funny as hell man.

That kid reminds me of me when I was younger.
 
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