"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This rat.

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Energizer

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This girl that I have known for three months has been trying it on with me in a big way, always smiling at me, she gets jealous when I'm around other girl, the look on her face is priceless, and she is always talking to me, she has asked for my number and my facebook, which I gave her.

It all sounds good that this little rodent is interested, she's hot (if you like hamsters), but I figured she is mentally deranged, seeing as she is otherwise committed in a relationship, her behaviour is unappropriate and I have told her, I also deleted her from facebook and deleted her number. She texts me now and again, but I haven't replied, I was more interested in another girl which I stuffed up last week.

She is still smiling at me and she appears to be slighty more aggressive. Is there anyway I can this immature runt where to get off? I don't touch other men's women. I figured maybe it is time for me to get intentionally nasty.

What do you suggest I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cinamon

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You should update your facebook status to something like "I'm too good to be someone's bit on the side, so leave me alone... you know who you are" That would be so funny and resolve the problem, even better write it on her wall and embarass her.
 

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Cinamon said:
You should update your facebook status to something like "I'm too good to be someone's bit on the side, so leave me alone... you know who you are" That would be so funny and resolve the problem, even better write it on her wall and embarass her.
Yes, and no.

Be the bigger man, don't post anything like that on her wall. Shake her off, just ignore her outright and all. I'm sure someone will provide better advice on how to shake her from your tail, but just take the high ground on this and avoid directly posting anything like that directly to her, if the guy finds out and something goes sour there, she sounds like she might go bat**** on you.
 

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I would just ignore her like you've been doing

she'll stop eventually
 

Mr_rogers

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You could just tell her off in person. I don't know if she gets touchy-feely with you or not, but if she does, make a point of flinching a bit and moving away to maintain your personal space. If you do it right, it'll send the message that you're not interested in her in the slightest. She should bugger off.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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scrouds

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Just tell her you love and ask if she loves you. Repeat until she dumps your intentionally needy ass.
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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scrouds said:
Just tell her you love and ask if she loves you. Repeat until she dumps your intentionally needy ass.
That's the way.

Say, "I thought you wanted a relationship, but you're just like the rest!"

HAHAHAHAHA
 
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I deleted her from facebook soon after we became friends, I saw she had a boyfriend and thought "I don't do female friends..delete". She never asked why I deleted her, but I'm hoping she is smart enough to see why I deleted her after about a minute of being her friend.

What I do find strange about this girl is that she has never once spoken about her boyfriend or told anyone she has a boyfriend, if you ask what she did over the weekend, she'll mention she had a quiet night on Fri or Sat on her own or with her mates, she never once says anything about her boyfriend, yet her facebook status's are all about how she spent the weekend with her boyfriend. I don't want to read too much into this, but I have never met a girl who would keep their boyfriend a secret. Is she ashamed or she is trying to start an affair with someone who she thinks is single, either way, I have never encountered this before and it makes me even more tempted to inform her boyfriend that his girlfriend is a complete sl*t who denies his existence. Of course, I will do this, if she doesn't leave me alone.

It's bro's before hoe's with me and this girl needs taking down a peg or six.
 
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I was extremely nasty to her, called her slut and stuff and she started crying.

Well as a consequence I've been getting slated by her mates and her boyfriend wants to beat me up, because I was nasty to his slag of a girlfriend. I wonder what lies she told him.

Women are more trouble than they are worth.
 

scrouds

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Energizer said:
I was extremely nasty to her, called her slut and stuff and she started crying.

Well as a consequence I've been getting slated by her mates and her boyfriend wants to beat me up, because I was nasty to his slag of a girlfriend. I wonder what lies she told him.

Women are more trouble than they are worth.
Really you should have just fuucked her. I think that's better then intentionally causing drama with your holier-than-thou attitude.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Evzone

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Energizer said:
I was extremely nasty to her, called her slut and stuff and she started crying.
Some girls do deserve this, but more often than not, it's better in the long run for connections that she may have that you want to hook up with to terminate things without much banter or antics. Just give the response that companies give when they don't want to hire someone: "I don't think we can proceed further."

Then just walk away. If she fires back with a tirade, which sometimes (often) they do, she is trying to get a rise out of you. Don't take the bait and either delete it or add her to your spam filter.
 
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scrouds said:
Really you should have just fuucked her. I think that's better then intentionally causing drama with your holier-than-thou attitude.
That's not how I roll, if she was single, yeah she is fair game, I am not sleeping with someone's girlfriend and it has nothing to do with a holier than thou attitude.

She was nothing special and there are thousands of women like here in my region.
 
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