"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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this question is not about game

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I have a problem.... I met this girl in the Univ and have been chating with her for a long time the thing is that I have not been gaming her, just "AFC chating" with her, the reason is that she is a religious girl and I wouldn`t like to hurt her, she is a very NICE GIRL, PRETY GIRL and over all HOT. In my opinion she is material for a very good LTR.

I have the issue that I don`t see her as regulary as I would like and when we met we just can to be together for 1 hour so I don`t know how to turn things around to attrac her to me

It ****s me up that I don´t even dare to change things up!1!!!

****ing onetis!!!!!!!!

we will met tomorrow

I would like to have your opinion in what should I do??
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Be bold.

So what she's a religious girl.. do you really think that means she doesn't still have a different side to her?

Some of the biggest closet freaks I've met put on some facade to men and for THAT reason; they want men to think they are good girls so they are seemingly 'out of everyone's grasps'.

Be bold, mess around with her a bit verbally, and make a move. Worst comes to worst, she rejects you. Trust me, you'll get much more respect from a woman making a move than you will pvssyfooting around her, hoping that she will make the move.
 

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WC2 said:
Be bold, mess around with her a bit verbally, and make a move.
I know what you are talking about you are right, its funny how oneitis change all over

how do you think I could
mess aroun with her a bit verbaly
?

Trust me, you'll get much more respect from a woman making a move than you will pvssyfooting around her,hoping that she will make the move.
I'm not waiting that she makes a move, I`m sure she will not, the problem is that I KNOW she is a good person and I don`t want to **** things up with her


but I want to be with her, if she don`t correspond me, chances are that we`ll have to stop seeing eachother cos I don`t want to be her friend


Opinions????????
 
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JEFE said:
I know what you are talking about you are right, its funny how oneitis change all over

how do you think I could
?


I'm not waiting that she makes a move, I`m sure she will not, the problem is that I KNOW she is a good person and I don`t want to **** things up with her


but I want to be with her, if she don`t correspond me, chances are that we`ll have to stop seeing eachother cos I don`t want to be her friend


Opinions????????
You don't want to **** things up with her?

What does that mean?

Do you think making bold moves comes without risk of rejection?

Would you rather sit idle and as you two become friends?

For god sakes do you and her a favor and give your lives a little excitement. Make a move on her when she least expects it. A kiss is not like a bullet, it's not going to kill anyone.

You clearly are immortalizing this girl to be god's gift to earth while in reality she's just some stupid girl who would probably give it up to someone else bolder than yourself.
 

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Sounds like you're desperate for this girl. No one likes a desperate guy.

Stop idealizing her. She's a human being like any other with her strengths and weaknesses. If it doesn't work out, the world doesn't end.

Just relax.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WC2 said:
You clearly are immortalizing this girl to be god's gift to earth while in reality she's just some stupid girl who would probably give it up to someone else bolder than yourself.
:crackup: easy wc2 inmortalizing???? I just said that she is a good person I don`t think this is inmortalizing. you are a good person by give me advice sayin that Im not inmortalizing you am I?

Sounds like you're desperate for this girl. No one likes a desperate guy.

Stop idealizing her. She's a human being like any other with her strengths and weaknesses. If it doesn't work out, the world doesn't end.

Just relax.
you are right I have to get her down of the pedestal, and start to be more forward towards her :up: It would be nice if you could give me some pointers :up:
 
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