this prom qusetion is none like other.......

[sac_hot_male]

ok i just recently ask this good friend of mine to go to the prom.....i got the feelings for her and all and i'm pretty sure she feels the same way(i havnt date her yet).....juss today an innocent girl came up to me and ask me out to the prom with her (and remember i already have a date for the prom) while i was with the girl that i just ask out to the prom to go with......me and my date was stunned and we both didnt bring up the part where i already have a date for the prom.....i pause for a couple of second and then i responded "well i have a really tight schedule lately so can i have time to think about it and give you the answer before prom night " and she says ok and walked away.....with that say and done i juss gave my prom a look and say what should i do.....she just responded " its your decision " and walk away with an upset face...

-it would suck if i rejected the innocent girl

-it would also suck if i dont go with my date because i'm pretty in love with her

i know its my decision to make but any advice out there...put yourself in my shoe and what would you do???...it would suck if my current date for the prom goes out with other guys, it will make me jealous for sure....

any help out there would be greatful...thanks

 

[KillaCam]

it would also suck if i dont go with my date because i'm pretty in love with her

Watch when you say the word love. You're either deluded, AFC, truly in love, or a combination of the 3. Be very careful with that word

Anyway, if you really like this girl, why would you consider anyone else? Just because another opportunity came along, doesn't mean you have to take it.

The answer is pretty simple, who do you want to go with..the girl you have feelings for? or the random innocent chick who wants you?

Pretty easy.

 

[Enjin 7]

just do what you want, baller. the school is yours anyway, right?

 

[Friendly Otter]

I think you know that was not a good way to treat your prom date; to her, it must have looked like you were keeping your doors open, or that you were embarrassed to say you were going with her. You should tell her that you know you should have told the innocent girl you already had a date but that you didn't want to hurt her feelings, and that was bad of you, but you were thinking too slowly.

Then tell the innocent girl that you had already promised another girl to be her date if she didn't have someone to go with, and now you have just learned that she doesn't have someone to go with so you'll have to keep your word, but otherwise you would have been happy to go with the innocent girl instead.

It is likely your prom date was very offended, rightly, but if you apologize you should be able to save the situation. A little honesty can go a long way.

 

[toddC]

ok lets for a sceond think that you are in actuality in love with this girl....there shouldn't even be a choice in the matter...if i were you thi sis how I woulda responded to that innocent girl...
"Ohh thanks for asking, but I'm going with ____ <--insert name here, sorry."
That would've done 2 things...made your date VERY happy and turned down the innocent girl very easily so she wouldn't be that sad.

 

[kev me723]

what? dude I'm not making any decisions for anyone else

 

[Damian]

You handled the situation expertly. What you should explain to your "love-date" is that you were trying to avoid the kind of awkward situation that would end up with the girl being embarassed. Just imagine if you said straight out "Sorry, Can't, Going with the girl standing right here." This is much like asking a girl out with her boyfriend sitting right next to her. Defusing the situation with your "love-date" should be your first priority if you are really that interested in her.

-Damian

 

[sac_hot_male]

hey thanks alot toddC....i used your lines and it work out better than i though it would be.....and thankz for every ones help too.....

this is what happen today when i "rejected the innocent girl":

i say whats type above by toddC (by the way its was only me and the innocent girl) and she says that she understand and also mention that me and my date really do make a couple....she apologize for what she say (asking me out of course)....i started to blush and wanted to hug her because i felt like i really needed a hug BUT just in time my date for the prom came by and saw me with the innocent girl.....she probably think wierd stuff was going on but i went over to her and hug her ( i think i bear hug her).....she's clueless and the innocent girl came over to us and explain what was going on and apologize to my date as well.....my date understand what was going on and everthing went well......


so thanks for everyones help