This place is amazing

[StacksHitEmUp]

Just a quick thank you to the moderators and the members of this board because this place is awesome. There's so much knowledge being spread around on this forum and so much empowerment, I feel bad for any man who isn't actively reading and/or partaking on SoSuave. I haven't been actively reading these past two months and I could feel myself doing the famous beta backslide. Needless to say my girlfriend was starting to lose interest and I was starting to suck at lining other girls up aswell. Started reading the forum again and some parts of the DJ bible and my gf is eating out my hand again and I got other prospects in case **** goes bad. It's not just about girls/women either, this place is like some kinda lifecoach on the essential parts of life aswell.

I'd be interested to hear how SoSuave and the DJ bible changed other people's lives.

 

[TheGambino]

Just a quick thank you to the moderators and the members of this board because this place is awesome. There's so much knowledge being spread around on this forum and so much empowerment, I feel bad for any man who isn't actively reading and/or partaking on SoSuave. I haven't been actively reading these past two months and I could feel myself doing the famous beta backslide. Needless to say my girlfriend was starting to lose interest and I was starting to suck at lining other girls up aswell. Started reading the forum again and some parts of the DJ bible and my gf is eating out my hand again and I got other prospects in case **** goes bad. It's not just about girls/women either, this place is like some kinda lifecoach on the essential parts of life aswell.

I'd be interested to hear how SoSuave and the DJ bible changed other people's lives.

This sounds great, good for you! Welcome and embrace it. Sometimes it goes sour and you get quality advice here.

 

[Romanemp22]

Glad to hear things are getting back on. Whenever you feel you're being weak or doing something beta, slap yourself really hard to snap the fvck out.

 

[Serenity]

I'd be interested to hear how SoSuave and the DJ bible changed other people's lives.

Knowing my underlying personality I probably would have broken free and figured everything out eventually, but this place sure accelerated the process.

 

[Warpal]

What worked for you that your gf is eating out of your hand again ?

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

What worked for you that your gf is eating out of your hand again ?

Return to being the man she met. I went back to being confident, independent, hard to get a hold of and I stopped caring so much because I know I'll be fine without her and when she goes somewhat distant, go more distant, do NOT chase! I also ran some dread game through instagram stories and what not. I've been with her since January and all the way to begin september I was the mother****ing king, but then I slowly got sucked into the romantic lovey dovey bull**** girls tend to pull you in and at first they love it, but then they get turned off. I didn't go dumb enough for her to go full on low interest (I could tell she became less invested) but it definitely dropped so I had to sit myself down, read through some material in the DJ bible, start reading threads again on here because even if it doesn't apply to your situation, the principles always stay the same. I did this for myself, not for the relationship. I wanted me to feel like the mother****ing boss again, no matter what happened. I don't know where I read this but the best piece of advice I can give to any man is treat yourself like a king, you CHOOSE a queen and if she does not hold up to your standards you exile her from your kingdom.

Glad to hear things are getting back on. Whenever you feel you're being weak or doing something beta, slap yourself really hard to snap the fvck out.

Exactly, the problem most men have is they do not realise they're being weak. Gladly, most of us on here do. And if people don't slap themselves to snap the **** outof it, other members here will do it for them if they post their situation which is what a lot of dudes need because almost always it's easier to make a good assessment while watching from the sidelines. So anyone reading this, take the consensus advice people give you on here even if you don't like it or it doesn't match your agenda, because usually it's the best advice there is.