Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This place has gone to Sh1t.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soma de Sade

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Hey, what the fvck...how could I have missed this thread. I feel compelled to add a reply.

Fvck you all. You're all tossers. I reckon it be true. Make it so. Engage. Mr Worf, to the Bridge! Seabreeze is a man, Ms Thang needs to stop opening her mouth for "see food" and start closing her mouth so she can get to baking me a goddamn apple pie. Golf claps are for pvssies and so are guns. That's what 311 said. All you high school cooter chasers should know there are more important things than vagina but you won't cause you're dumb. If Dilly lives up to his name he'll only be half the man Dillinger ever was, and half of nothing ain't a whole lot. We STILL don't know who Dillinger is besides being the fruity PM sender. "Please don't say mean things to people, it may hurt their feelings...". Tonight I bought an xmas gift for my co-worker and forget to get the the wrapping paper. Argh, my nigga...argh! I'm not black but the way I say "my nigga" ranks up there with the best of em.

Slingblade, biotch! Mmmhm
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Climax

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what in the world?!?!?!?!?

look at you guys!:mad: fighting like a bunch of girls! what is this? this forum is for mature people (including women) who are knowlegable and want to gain more knowlege about DJ'ing and such... This is NOT about guys being better than women, or women being chased away because they are simply WOMEN! Some of the threads which the women had alot to say in them i found to be VERY helpfull and VERY true, so to those who are telling the women to F*ckoff, please do try and loose the ego and pride, and instead of seeing the women on this forum as "trying to trick us" and all that B,S, rather see them as ANOTHER PERSON that is knowlegable and is giving adice to the best of their ability, and also looking to gain MORE knowlege from others. The way some of you go about this whole women thing is pathetic and immature, and i dont even know why the mods kept this thread open. :rolleyes:

Anyways... I hope that some of you wake up and snap out of this "anti-women" attitude.

And yes, as all other forums that there are out there, some of the information WILl be invalid and not true, but thats because we are all human and we are not all perfect, so instead of tuning and "attacking" these people, why not rather try correct them and "show them the truth" or "the right way" etc?

You all need to get out of this "attack" mode that u are in, and instead of calling eachother names and going on like a bunch of whiney girls, you should rather try HELP eachother and WORK TOGEATHER with a goal of bettering yourself, AND eachother.

Laterz...
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What's sad is that this thread is active again after it had been dead for almost two weeks. And during that time the board was relatively quiet and things seemed to be going back to normal.
 
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