This ought to make you guys laugh

[randalljohnson]

That's the only thing you've proven on this forum.

What? That I enjoy sleeping with her?

 

[randalljohnson]

Sounds more like you're indirectly asking what to do more than trying to give us a laugh.

No I know how a lot of people on here are about my posts

 

[randalljohnson]

Cut the sh!t dude, this is the same thread as you've posted previously!

1. You keep on posting about this womans actions, it clearly affects you on some level.

2. Given all the information provided, you should kick her a$$ to the kerb. The advice provided by many posters is spot on, the woman is trash!

3. Despite the solid advice, your clearly still entertaining this woman.

Summary: Your either a troll or you are so blinded by your 'love' for this woman you can't see the facts. Your relationship does not end well!

I'm not a troll so I guess I'm "blinded by love" as u say. The truth is, her actions on social media are questionable to me, but I have a hard time pulling the trigger on getting rid of her just because of something as superficial as social media. If that makes sense.

As one poster said, almost all girls these days crave validation on social media. Right or wrong?

 

[cityboy989]

I'm not a troll so I guess I'm "blinded by love" as u say. The truth is, her actions on social media are questionable to me, but I have a hard time pulling the trigger on getting rid of her just because of something as superficial as social media. If that makes sense.

As one poster said, almost all girls these days crave validation on social media. Right or wrong?

So you're stuck between a rock and a hard place. You're conflicted because you don't know if what your girlfriend is doing is what it appears to be (lol)

 

[sazc]

@randalljohnson last I checked I was a female. I guarantee you - when I am in a relationship and attention seeking and/or flirting with other men it is because there is something missing in my relationship. Females that claim to be in monogamous and committed relationships dont attention seek unless there' a gaping hoe in their present relationship.

"all girls crave attention" yes but girls whom are all about their man dont attention seek. She is attention seeking.

 

[Billtx49]

@randalljohnson last I checked I was a female. I guarantee you - when I am in a relationship and attention seeking and/or flirting with other men it is because there is something missing in my relationship. Females that claim to be in monogamous and committed relationships dont attention seek unless there' a gaping hoe in their present relationship.

"all girls crave attention" yes but girls whom are all about their man dont attention seek. She is attention seeking.

He's not listening. Only hears what he wants to hear, yet he's still asking for forum advice and opinions after multiple threads…
Beginning to think he's a highly skilled troll.

 

[switch7]

He will learn the hard way.

Op obviously hasn't experienced being played before so perhaps he needs it

 

[randalljohnson]

He will learn the hard way.

Op obviously hasn't experienced being played before so perhaps he needs it

Well you're wrong there. I have had my fair share of psycho exes. I've had a cancerous ex come back after a couple years JUST to try to get me into some kind of legal trouble.

And my girlfriend that I have now has said she's wanted stability for herself and her kid. I show her more love and care than any of the tools she's been with in the past. If she ends up playing me I really will lose all faith in women.

 

[Von]

Well you're wrong there. I have had my fair share of psycho exes. I've had a cancerous ex come back after a couple years JUST to try to get me into some kind of legal trouble.

And my girlfriend that I have now has said she's wanted stability for herself and her kid. I show her more love and care than any of the tools she's been with in the past. If she ends up playing me I really will lose all faith in women.

But she is playing you, like all your exes from what you wrote

Its obvious on your post here, why it is

 

[randalljohnson]

But she is playing you, like all your exes from what you wrote

Its obvious on your post here, why it is

Which is?

 

[cityboy989]

@randalljohnson last I checked I was a female. I guarantee you - when I am in a relationship and attention seeking and/or flirting with other men it is because there is something missing in my relationship. Females that claim to be in monogamous and committed relationships dont attention seek unless there' a gaping hoe in their present relationship.

"all girls crave attention" yes but girls whom are all about their man dont attention seek. She is attention seeking.

Just playing devils advocate, but maybe she's not necessarily seeking external attention/validation because of her unsatisfaction in their relationship. Maybe shes doing it because of a void in her soul that can only be fixed through lots of therapy. Judging by how he touched on her mental/psychological issues, this woman definitely has one problem too many. She may have a really fragile ego and needs the validation.

Or she's still just a ho and sees it as fun.

Or she's still an unhappy person in this relationship but is trying to portray to him/ her friends and family that she is happy (whilst going behind his back and adding old flames, including exes.)

I still have a hard time believing a reformed ho (sorry Randall) can suddenly go from wanting alpha dogs to a beta provider that quickly.

Tell me if I'm wrong Sazc. Don't want Randall flipping out on me.

 

[soulforge]

Randall is blown!

Seriously man, if I was in a committed relationship with some chick, and I found out she was following exe's online or random dudes..

I would SERIOUSLY consider dropping her..

Plus I don't see at what point, this thread gets funny!


We will see you in the NC thread soon enough, when she has SCREWED you over..

 

[Asasione]

I'm not a troll so I guess I'm "blinded by love" as u say. The truth is, her actions on social media are questionable to me, but I have a hard time pulling the trigger on getting rid of her just because of something as superficial as social media. If that makes sense.

As one poster said, almost all girls these days crave validation on social media. Right or wrong?

So you finally decided to reason like a grown man it only took you several months of posting the same crap on these boards? I told you the same thing but you kept arguing, stop cyber stalking your girl and live your life, in fact I'd stay away from social media if you know what's good for you.

Your initial post wasn't funny, it was very pathetic, so what if they follow each other over Instagram, if things go sour with her you'll just get another girl, rinse and repeat till you find one worth keeping.

 

[randalljohnson]

Randall is blown!

Seriously man, if I was in a committed relationship with some chick, and I found out she was following exe's online or random dudes..

I would SERIOUSLY consider dropping her..

Plus I don't see at what point, this thread gets funny!


We will see you in the NC thread soon enough, when she has SCREWED you over..

Gee thanks pal

 

[randalljohnson]

@randalljohnson last I checked I was a female. I guarantee you - when I am in a relationship and attention seeking and/or flirting with other men it is because there is something missing in my relationship. Females that claim to be in monogamous and committed relationships dont attention seek unless there' a gaping hoe in their present relationship.

"all girls crave attention" yes but girls whom are all about their man dont attention seek. She is attention seeking.

Alright. That's how you operate, thus that's how all females operate?

I understand that I'm asking everybody for your opinions and I do appreciate the honesty, I just feel that I'm being wrongfully targeted on this forum

 

[sazc]

Alright. That's how you operate, thus that's how all females operate?

I understand that I'm asking everybody for your opinions and I do appreciate the honesty, I just feel that I'm being wrongfully targeted on this forum

From what I can tell, from what gets posted, I am one of the more self assessing and insightful females that are on the dating market. If I caught myself looking for attention from other males I would step back and say to myself what am I missing in this relationship, can it be saved, can I get what I need?
Your chick isn't doing that. She's fishing for attention from other guys.
I have had some pretty sh1tty x's in my life, and the last thing I do is try to friend them or let them back in my life. They don't deserve any of my time.

Your chick is doing the opposite

 

[CodeOfAtlas]

The fact that you are monitoring who is following her on social media should be all you need.

No confident man with a trustworthy woman does this.

 

[cityboy989]

From what I can tell, from what gets posted, I am one of the more self assessing and insightful females that are on the dating market. If I caught myself looking for attention from other males I would step back and say to myself what am I missing in this relationship, can it be saved, can I get what I need?
Your chick isn't doing that. She's fishing for attention from other guys.
I have had some pretty sh1tty x's in my life, and the last thing I do is try to friend them or let them back in my life. They don't deserve any of my time.

Your chick is doing the opposite

Her attention/validation seeking = daddy issues. One man can't fill this "damaged promiscuous woman's" gaping hole in her heart.

 

[randalljohnson]

From what I can tell, from what gets posted, I am one of the more self assessing and insightful females that are on the dating market. If I caught myself looking for attention from other males I would step back and say to myself what am I missing in this relationship, can it be saved, can I get what I need?
Your chick isn't doing that. She's fishing for attention from other guys.
I have had some pretty sh1tty x's in my life, and the last thing I do is try to friend them or let them back in my life. They don't deserve any of my time.

Your chick is doing the opposite

Ok, she's doing the opposite, so what does that mean to you? She's entertaining people from her past I.E. exes on social media, but she's spending her time with me. So what does that mean to you? That she's SECRETLY unsatisfied and will break up with me at some point?

 

[Billtx49]

So what does that mean to you? That she's SECRETLY unsatisfied and will break up with me at some point?

Yes. Many women always look to their past first when unhappy and bored with their current relationship. Its because of previous time invested making it easier for them. It's the path of least resistance, so they look there first.
If they fail to have sucess there, they usually find a new man.
That is the path your woman is on.