"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This ones for the oldies/'masters'/veterans/people that have been here far too long

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"Self-confidence leads to several things in life. For one, it leads to self-reliance. A truly confident person will learn the minimum he needs in order to apply the skills he wants to have, and then he will use those skills. Someone who has no self-confidence, on the other hand, will constantly try to gain new information, but will never truly feel prepared. You see, someone with no confidence will never be willing to take the risks necessary to gain actual experience, which is what transforms knowledge into skill."
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This stuck in my head. I've been coming here irregularly for around 6 years. I doubt I'll continue.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thats how i felt before. I always thought i could do it which to some extent i could. Then one day i decided theres not really much else to know, it seemed liek i just knew what to do. I just come here to see what people have to say. In some way i feel that i can help them out with what ive learned.
 
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I feel like me and the rest from 2001 and 2002 are my boys... we all talk on AIM and stuff... the newbs will eventually feel the same in a few years too...

I come irregularly to try to help... little have I to learn now.
 
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nice quote....after reading Sammo's latest offering and this, i think it's timeto take a reevaluation of my life on So Suave and other forums...
 
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I like this quote. I am going to steal it post it somewhere more conspicuous than the high school forum.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Been around for a while, know all the information, but knowing doesn't necessarily mean that you apply what is said here.


Myself, I need to get into that Health and Fitness forum, I'm just too lazy to do it. Motivation is what I lack...
 
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The thing is... that a lot of people have already learned so called "all" the aspects of being a DJ, but the thing we need to do now is to obviously act and keep that mentality...

"Knowledge is nothing if you dont act!"

I know that everybody that reads these articles and what not obviously act... but when you've succeeded, and get a girl into a long term relationship... you have to tone down C & F cuz youve won her over... this is when ppl become AFC again.

I normally come back to the forums cuz i seldomly make mistakes that i dont know how to handle....

Not to mention the fact that theres so many things to remember that sometimes you focus on being so ****y & Funny that you forget to be a challenge to the women you're talking with.... these things happen to me, its really easy to forget the aspects of being a DJ... but most of all, i like to help ppl with their problems!
 
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