"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This one threw me!

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Okay some im in a bar, gaming some chick ive been talking to the last couple weeks. I give her a direct flirt (something meaning she wants me to want her) & she comes back with 'I have a boyfriend'. So i say 'thats cool, im more of a MANfriend'. (She knows my intentions & theres no way im heading for a friendzone here :L). Then she says, 'you're nothing to me ace... maybe borderline friend if that', in a flirty way. What am i supposed to have said to that? Couldnt think of anything ****y funny! Any suggestions to that sort of remark?


Also had a similar incident with another chick. I accused her of getting physical with me in a ****y way, she says 'you wish, you're the touchy one' (I play alot of kino). Any good replys to this?

& If a chick calls you horrible in response to negging, what do you say? I usually go with - Yeah, im badass! Any other good suggestions? I get this alot lol

Cheers dons!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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depends on how she said it. it could have been flirty, but only you know the truth. the actual words she said sounded pretty harsh, but maybe she plays rough.

i would have said "whoa--borderline friend? moving a little fast there"

i had some chick call me a friend after the first week of knowing her and i spun it to make it seem like she's jumping the gun a little because i barely knew her

but this chick has a boyfriend though so i'd just personally move on
 

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MisterD said:
depends on how she said it. it could have been flirty, but only you know the truth. the actual words she said sounded pretty harsh, but maybe she plays rough.

i would have said "whoa--borderline friend? moving a little fast there"

i had some chick call me a friend after the first week of knowing her and i spun it to make it seem like she's jumping the gun a little because i barely knew her

but this chick has a boyfriend though so i'd just personally move on
She definitely plays rough, almost certain she was into me. I don't care too much, I was really just practising game on her, potential plate. Loving the moving too fast crack though :D
 

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Shot down in flames. That's about as evil as a girl will ever word it.

It's ok, rejection is the key to sexual prosperity, and if you can survive that then you are impervious as can be.
 

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bigneil said:
Shot down in flames. That's about as evil as a girl will ever word it.

It's ok, rejection is the key to sexual prosperity, and if you can survive that then you are impervious as can be.
I'd agree, but she followed me round the bar/club all night and then starts texting me after... maybe attention seeking but whatever im finding it fun to see how far i can push the sexual comments without actually annoying her as she has a boyfriend.

Ohh & usually i LOVE rejection. Some of my best lines have come from chicks that have rejected me :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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