"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Okay some im in a bar, gaming some chick ive been talking to the last couple weeks. I give her a direct flirt (something meaning she wants me to want her) & she comes back with 'I have a boyfriend'. So i say 'thats cool, im more of a MANfriend'. (She knows my intentions & theres no way im heading for a friendzone here :L). Then she says, 'you're nothing to me ace... maybe borderline friend if that', in a flirty way. What am i supposed to have said to that? Couldnt think of anything ****y funny! Any suggestions to that sort of remark?


Also had a similar incident with another chick. I accused her of getting physical with me in a ****y way, she says 'you wish, you're the touchy one' (I play alot of kino). Any good replys to this?

& If a chick calls you horrible in response to negging, what do you say? I usually go with - Yeah, im badass! Any other good suggestions? I get this alot lol

Cheers dons!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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depends on how she said it. it could have been flirty, but only you know the truth. the actual words she said sounded pretty harsh, but maybe she plays rough.

i would have said "whoa--borderline friend? moving a little fast there"

i had some chick call me a friend after the first week of knowing her and i spun it to make it seem like she's jumping the gun a little because i barely knew her

but this chick has a boyfriend though so i'd just personally move on
 

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MisterD said:
depends on how she said it. it could have been flirty, but only you know the truth. the actual words she said sounded pretty harsh, but maybe she plays rough.

i would have said "whoa--borderline friend? moving a little fast there"

i had some chick call me a friend after the first week of knowing her and i spun it to make it seem like she's jumping the gun a little because i barely knew her

but this chick has a boyfriend though so i'd just personally move on
She definitely plays rough, almost certain she was into me. I don't care too much, I was really just practising game on her, potential plate. Loving the moving too fast crack though :D
 

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Shot down in flames. That's about as evil as a girl will ever word it.

It's ok, rejection is the key to sexual prosperity, and if you can survive that then you are impervious as can be.
 

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bigneil said:
Shot down in flames. That's about as evil as a girl will ever word it.

It's ok, rejection is the key to sexual prosperity, and if you can survive that then you are impervious as can be.
I'd agree, but she followed me round the bar/club all night and then starts texting me after... maybe attention seeking but whatever im finding it fun to see how far i can push the sexual comments without actually annoying her as she has a boyfriend.

Ohh & usually i LOVE rejection. Some of my best lines have come from chicks that have rejected me :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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