this one stumped me, if will stump you. maybe just weird?

[shyguy]

Well damn i thought it was done with,but today i found out not!! WTF!

Bascially took this chick out from work like 4 times. Didnt get that far just making out oor whatever.But it seemed like she would never call me, or even talk to me much or want to push for another date. I had to make every damn move to get anything going.

So i gave up on that and just left it alone. Well im stumped!! i find out today, from my coworker, that she is getting me a christmas gift. i was like okay, but then i found out if was like a 40 dollar bottle of fragerance, that suprised me. She doesnt make much money at all and she *****es about even spending like 15 bucks on a shirt for herself!

So im thinking wtf. I have to get something for her that is decent. Then today a situation came up and to make it short, she thinks " were seeing each other and dating". Hmm i pretty much stopped thinking that like weeks ago!!
She doesnt call me, i call her a couple times, she doesnt ever ask me if im free or whatever etc. If she is playing hard to get, it is to hard cause she is like a 7 maybe.

I almost want to come staight out and ask what is up ? what do you think "we" are!

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by shyguy
o get, it is to hard cause she is like a 7 maybe.

dear lord man, a 7!?!?! is giving you this much ****? and you care this much about it?

go out and get some other girls, good job not caring about her anymore, id be pissed to if i spent 4 dates with a chick and she does so much as to not even call me...

personally id just ask her wtf is up with her since i couldnt give a sh1t with what she thinks (and i wouldnt buy her sh1t for xmas until i cleared things up)...

either way id go after other chicks, gl

 

[shyguy]

wrong meaning

nah i meant when i said it is hard, is that she is playing hard to get and personally i dont care about her at all really. she isnt like a damn trophy. i dont care if she likes me or not, but i really dont want to be involved with this chick anymore cause i think she is kinda weird in that sense. i just want to clear things up to get those thoughts out of her mind and stop spreading the word around espeically to all the other cuties i work with cause i like some of them.

it seems like everyone knows, about nothing but she makes it something! we hung out a few times, didnt bang out and were not going out. NEXT!! but only thing that bothers me is the gift really. Im not going to be a prick and get her something mad cheap when she is actually spending a little loot. I have to break it to her though, nothing is happening between us!

ur damn on target white hype with this one, just weird and drop her ass!

 

[xblitz44x]

Shyguy,

Typically, the people who play games, and who play hard to get are the people who believe they need *to* do those things in order for another person to like them. The 7 could very well have been hurt or burned before, or is constantly rejected so playing these games and acting distant are her ways of protecting herself and making SURE that you really like her before she invests herself. She probably believes that she NEEDS to do act distant to work as a filter to get rid of the guys who don't like her very much and are in it for the ass.

Give it another shot if you like her. Be a little more outgoing. Take the lead, DO the work. You shouldn't have a problem doing this because you know *why* she's playing games. And it's not because she thinks she's 'hot shyt', it's actually the opposite.

You can't blame her for the games because everybody from this board plays them for the same reasons.

 

[NatureGuy]

I encountered something like this some
time ago. She was super shy and reserved.
She expected me to initiate everything
(I suppose she was afraid to initiate herself).
Also very similar to your situation was she
thought we were dating when we hardly
saw each other and it confused me !
I had asked myself, are we "dating" if I see her once in a month?
I think her shynesss or whatever it was made her understand things differently than you or I would see those same events.

 

[shyguy]

you guys are right, i was wrong

WEll today a break came out of it and cleared everything up. she is just a shy girl, and one who will not initaite calls etc. I have been informed by my mom that she called her and asked her what i like for chirstmas and my birthday which isnt far away to see what she can get me. She is spending like over 100 dollars. So i came to the fact she does like me and is just shy and conservative and i have to make the moves.

 

[white_hype]

Re: you guys are right, i was wrong

Originally posted by shyguy
WEll today a break came out of it and cleared everything up. she is just a shy girl, and one who will not initaite calls etc. I have been informed by my mom that she called her and asked her what i like for chirstmas and my birthday which isnt far away to see what she can get me. She is spending like over 100 dollars. So i came to the fact she does like me and is just shy and conservative and i have to make the moves.

wow, she called your mom to see what you liked? thats one of the nicest things...

NEXT

lol, jk, what are you going to do with her?

 

[shyguy]

what im going to do

what im going to do with her. Im going to keep her, but on the side. See other chicks and meet them and try to get out of her what she exactly thinks whats going on between us.

i guess im like many other guys, im really impatient i guess. I wanted to have sex with this chick and i took her out many times, but we never got in the right situation to do the act, or privacy and she is really conservative on that, a virgin. Im also a virgin almost 22 damn that is sad, so it seems to me that the closure if i stick with this chick even on the side i want some action flat out.

I think i deserve it,but damn she seems like a prude ass girl. what would u do?