“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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We_ArE_VeNOM

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so wtf are you arguing w ppl about then..
If you don’t even use it ??
Reading comprehension.

I never said I don't use it, in general.

I said I don't use it in public, specifically.

wtf are you even talking about
You mentioned ARC in prior posts, but it doesn't appear that you are familiar with his work.

If you were, you wouldn't be asking this ignorant ass question about his Four Modes of Communication.

… what is
‘mode one, non-hardcore’?
Mode two?:rofl:
Mode 2 is indirect verbal communication...which is what 95% (my guesstimation) of all men are, and use.

Mode One (standard), Mode 1.5, and Mode One Hardcore are all the same in terms of direct verbal communication.

However, they differ in terms of what type of language is used (explicit or non-explicit) and the time it takes for the communicator to use it.

Give us an example of how you do a cold approach then and what you say to a woman and how it goes down to get ya d1ck wet.
1. See the woman.

2. If she is attractive, approach her.

3. Ask or request to give her my number.

4. If she calls/texts me, communicate my sexual intentions with her within the first 1-3 minutes of the phone conversation...or within the first few text messages.

I do # 4 before any mention of a date...and I know this methodology is too heavy for you guys to digest...but hey.

It is what it is.

And her reaction to #4 will tell me all I need to know.
 
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Reading comprehension.

I never said I don't use it, in general.

I said I don't use it in public, specifically.



You mentioned ARC in prior posts, but it doesn't appear that you are familiar with his work.

If you were, you wouldn't be asking this ignorant ass question about his Four Modes of Communication.



Mode 2 is indirect verbal communication...which is what 95% (my guesstimation) of all men are, and use.

Mode One (standard), Mode 1.5, and Mode One Hardcore are all the same in terms of direct verbal communication.

However, they differ in terms of what type of language is used (explicit or non-explicit) and the time it takes for the communicator to use it.



1. See the woman.

2. If she is attractive, approach her.

3. Ask or request to give her my number.

4. If she calls/texts me, communicate my sexual intentions with her within the first 1-3 minutes of the phone conversation...or within the first few text messages.

I do # 4 before any mention of a date...and I know this methodology is too heavy for you guys to digest...but hey.

It is what it is.

And her reaction to #4 will tell me all I need to know.
I’m pretty familar w him. and his claims

but anyway…

give more detail on your cold approach.
What do you say generally before the number closing bit. Give a detailed example if you can. More specificity helps.. cheers.
 
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C'mon, guys do the same.

When we interact with women, we are way more forgiving of bad behavior if it's done by a woman we find attractive and we think is attainable.

In fact, I'd argue guys are way more forgiving than women.

Obese women who ignores your one text = you ghost her right away.

Hot women who ignores your one hundredth text in a row = you think she's "just busy".
The difference is the hot chicks is busy...bouncing up and down on another guy lmfao
 

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I’m pretty familar w him. and his claims

but anyway…

give more detail on your cold approach.
What do you say generally before the number closing bit. Give a detailed example if you can. More specificity helps.. cheers.
1. "Excuse me Miss, are you single"?

*if she says yes*

2. "Can I give you my #?"

*if she says yes*

3. Hand her my card with contact info (but I love it when they hand you their phone, for you to input your information :cool:).

4. Tell her I find her attractive and would like to get to know her better.

5. Suggest for her to shoot me a text later, and I'll call her.

*She agrees, and we part ways*.

When I operate in this^ way, I try to keep a stoic look, demeanor, and voice.
..........

Or..

If she is already playing around on her phone, I'll (from a short distance), get her attention by saying any variation of..

"Miss, put my # in your phone".

"Miss, toss my # in your phone".

"Miss, can I put my # in your phone?".

These are all said in carefree, jokey-jokey ways...and the distance between her and I is short.
.....

It all depends on circumstances, but more importantly, my vibe and confidence level at the time.
......

Based on my methodology (and principles), I don't believe in the need, nor the practice, of taking no longer than 30 seconds to operate a day game cold approach.

Bank robbery method: In & out in 30 seconds or less...usually.

Because how long you take is irrelevant, so why take longer than need be?
 
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