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Tail between my legs. I'll try to have this post make sense this time. So this girl that I'm trying to figure out and really like asks me to come down to the club she went to tonight. I was prepared to sit this NYE out, just been a bad week overall and I need the downtime. However I figure I'll put some extra effort in so i go down there, I know a girl that works there so i managed to get in at the 50$ price (it was 75$ at the door tonight). I let the girl know that I would be down in a bit..
So I'm now at the club, I call her, no response, I txt, no response, about 45 minutes later I'm going to the bar for a drink, I see her in the "VIP" section using some guy as a human strip pole. The chance of her not seeing me is slim as i stick out like a sore thumb in this place, but I decided not to go over there, which i think was the right decision. I finished my drink upstairs and walked home feeling like ass. I just sent her a final txt wishing her happy nye and telling her im heading off to a friends party, which I didnt do because I just feel like a total fool right now. Just sharing my miserable experience, add this to some fool wrecking my car today:)
 

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Yo dude, cheer up. There's a lot of worse situations and reality out there in the world. Tomorrow will be a new day. Forget about the past! Happy new years bro!
 
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What blows me away is that you were down to go to a club AND pay that bull**** entrance fee just for the chance to hang with this girl.

Unless she has invited you to celebrate 2009 in her bedroom I wouldn't have bothered.

Wasn't worth it whatsoever was it? You could have gamed other girls at the club but let's be honest: you went with different expectations and those were broken. And so you are in a **** mood and your **** is limp.

If you could go back in time would you have just stayed home?

or would you have still gone to the club and forgot about the girl and got some numbers to start the year off right?

Hindsight is always 20/20 :] In this situation you went home all bummed out. Cheer up, it's a new year.
 
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hey bro..either way dont get upset about it. let it go man..
it aint worth startin your year upset over a chic

besides, maybe she put her phone away and most people DO get very drunk on new years eve.so she probably got her text tomorow.

let it go, dont contact, let her contact you and make sure when she's sober she makes it up to you...
plus when you hit it, tape it and sell it like Ray J...make yo 50 back with interest..lol
 
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To be honest I wasn't even in the mood to work on other chicks, I was totally prepared to sit this NYE out. I was wiped out from going out the night before and in hindsight as mentioned it was NYE and she was very drunk. Hindsight sucks:) I am ONLY upset with myself this morning, I know for sure had I just went over there and went up to her she would've been ecstatic, it was quite obvious her and her friends were just having fun and using their "charm" to be in the VIP section. The guy she was up there with was long gone when I left. And yes I for sure would've ended up with her in bed either at my place or hers had I just gone up to her. Being totally sober did not the situation at all. I overanalyzed the situation, she was drunk and she wanted me down there, I should have gone over. I was thinking that I prob would hear from her after the club got out, but didnt so I'm wondering if I will hear from her again, hopefully I didn't create an awkward situation.
What I saw as a bad situation last night in reality was the best opportunity for me yet with this girl and I didn't take advantage of it. Hopefully she will contact me and I can get her to make it up to me;)
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You paid $50 to get in a club? You dumbass! You barely knew the girl and you backed down thinking you'd creep her out. You fool!

Metacomet said:
Unless she has invited you to celebrate 2009 in her bedroom I wouldn't have bothered.

Wasn't worth it whatsoever was it? You could have gamed other girls at the club but let's be honest: you went with different expectations and those were broken. And so you are in a **** mood and your **** is limp.
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And that's what you get. Thanks to your AFC behavior and YOU. Thinking with the wrong damn head. Oneitis motherf**ker! Broaden your horizons.
 
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It sucks. It's bad, but so what? There were plenty more girls in that club that you could have tried it on with. This is the feeling you get when you close all the options around you and only focus on the one girl.

My night wasn't great, I was rejected twice, by a woman twice my age and by a HB9 my own age. That didn't stop me going home at 4am in the morning after getting completely wasted and seeing the night out with friends.
 
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drf408 said:
I just sent her a final txt wishing her happy nye and telling her im heading off to a friends party, which I didnt do because I just feel like a total fool right now. Just sharing my miserable experience, add this to some fool wrecking my car today:)
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Why text her? By texting her you let her know that her bad behaviour will go unpunished. Time now to show you have a spine and cut off contact with her.


It's the start of a new year. See her as being last years girl and go look for the women of 2009.
 
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