“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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this new girl, online field report;soon date report.

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So my attempt at getting out of this slump I've been in has hopefully come to a positive turn.

This is real long..so feel free to skip the IM convos if u want.

Myspace. My boy used to try and mack this girl he emt on myspace, but he seeme dot ge no where. she claimed "he "Didn't have a personality."
Now since he failed obviously, and she seems to be one attractive girl[from her pics shes like a HB 9, half german/irish half hispanic..that tan skin, ohman ohman]. So I added her and jsut made a casual message to her.
day later she messages me back; she thinks i'm mildy attractive *atleast* lol[I'm a good looking guy, so this is nothing new. but hott girls NEVER seem to ask to be my friend on the space].
Get her screen name, spit some game, she loves me.

her: omg
her: ur deff my fav guy!
her: i love it
apathetic: hahaha
her: lol
apathetic: they're amazing
her: omg i know!!
her: ahh ur sooo cool already
*i knew a song in her profile from a really unknown band.

...later...
her: wats ur number pimp?
apathetic: ***-***-****
her: aightt
her: do u want mine?
apathetic: nah:p
apathetic: ahah sure
her: ..
her: 1800-getaLife
her: haha jk
her: ***-***-****
when i proposed a chill-sesh she asks for MY #, then hands hers right over. I think shes
i must say, though the itnernet is quiet possibly the worst place to spit game..i'm a pretty good keyboard-jockey.
Later last ngiht when i got back on, she instantly IMs me to talk some more and we have to reschedule our date because shes busy all day sunday w/ her mom. Saturday. :D

her: im a black belt
her: and a kick boxing champ
her: and a street boxer
her: so u really wanna mess with me?
apathetic: and a liar
her: haha ****..
her: but wouldnt that be cool if it was true
apathetic: now what would be funny is if u nreally were and u never told me, and htne u whooped my ass
apathetic: and sat on my chest n went "*****. i'm [blah blah balh all that stuff]"
her: haha
her: aw
her: ...hmm well maybe im not lieing
her: but hey skank **** i gottta do my hurrr or else illl look like a beast tommorrow
apathetic: haha we'll have to wrestle a lil then. iuno where in the mall, but we'll find a place for me to beat u
her: eww...
her: naughty sexual faggot
apathetic: nah nah
her: bbl crapperface <3

I called her today n spat some game, when I tried to get off the phone she called me out on it lol "you're just trying to get away from me!" haha I gave her an 18 minute phone conversation before bailing, one of 3 girls I've spoken to on the phone for that long.
Later on tonight I was at my boys hosue doing some partying and whatnot, guess who calls. I've never met this girl before and shes calling me when shes with her friend looking for a party. "can you atleast sneak out tonight?" haha. But THEN when i asked "so you're still up for chilling tomorrow?" she gave me a "i dunno, call me tomorrow and we'll figure it out." sounding all sad, I asked why n she said she jsut really wanted to go out.

So tomorrow I'm hopefully meeting up with her, should be interesting.

any comments or tips for me, I've only done this internet-to-real-life dela once, and the girl was a skeet n only liek a HB7.5.
Thanks. I'll report back on how tomorrow goes.

And tonight I made my first approach in a while at a hookah bar. the girl was so cute, too bad her friends were staring at us the whole time[had a boyfriend at college, as well as a self-proclaimed "black ass" lol] she said "I cant be a bad girl tonight"lol. my boy who she knew said she woulda ****ed me if we were anywhere else.:cheer: I feel like a Million $$s.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so yesterday went down...So-So.
I ended up having to drive 35 minutes to the biggest Mall in the area, siht got all messed up because she doesnt drive so she had a guy FRIEND drive her and that was kinda awkward,but we met up with her female friend as well. this all went down around...5:30ish.
We got a little bit of time alone and i and kinoed her abit. her phone rang a few times and she was like "ew i dont want to talk to him!"...it was *her boyfriend* lol her guy friend had to tell me, she wouldn't. she jsut siad "some fag" when I asked lol? she hung up on him twice lol. he got word she was with me and got all scared. :rock:
Then they both left around 7 so it was just me and her and we were going to an 8 movie. So i spat some game, she got another call form ehr boyfrine dn todl him he "cant tell ehr what she cna and cant do" lol and i later explained how i let my ex girlfriend do w/e she wanted long as she wasn't hooking up with anyone. her eyes practically LIT up at that. That and i told her b!tchass to go refill my water cause she drank it all. lol she calledem an ******* and then started twirling her hair and making the eye signals[she holds contact and switches between each eye]..catch that **** and I knew was golden.

Saw the Guardian. had this girl with "a boyfriend" holding my hand, head in my lap looking all cute. but she started getting sad and almost cried during the movie so I didnt push any further. I think if she wants it bad enough, she'll see me again.

edit: oh yeah, the girl from the firstpsot at the bottom, who i emt at the hookah bar, told my boy that she really did want to fvck my brains out. dammmit why si ym ex-gf coming in town this next weekend? WHY?
 
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my bad, my space bar is broken and i suck at typing.

as of now, i talked to her briefly online. she didnt seem to into the convo and i got off, and now shes not making any effort to follow up.
I hypothosize that she used my attraction to her as a sign of her personal value: i fed the insecurity monster within her.
beat. we'll give her a few days n see how it turns out.
 

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Patrick124 said:
as of now, i talked to her briefly online. she didnt seem to into the convo and i got off, and now shes not making any effort to follow up.
I hypothosize that she used my attraction to her as a sign of her personal value: i fed the insecurity monster within her.
beat. we'll give her a few days n see how it turns out.

Shes either

A) Playing a game- let her call first

B) Not intrested/only used you for a ego trip- Next the *****

GJ though, the HS section needs more of this instead of the stupid **** it gets
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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no word from her as of yet. this is my first experience ever at being a girls little toy man. :cuss:
its like i'm not even sad, i'm more or less jsut p!ssed because i spat my A-game only to come out empty handed. I had myself convinced i could bag any girl whom I could get out on a date with me, and i felt so confident that night after the date that I had her.

I mean i guess thats why its called game, cant always win. but fvck.

any tips? i might try n followup a little bit, but i dont know if i should confront the issue. like could i confront it in a DJ-way?
 

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Just take her, she's waiting for you to take her. Btw PM me where you live in VA, we need to talk about cool places to go with girls. Where I live there's nowhere...
 

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Void said:
Just take her, she's waiting for you to take her. Btw PM me where you live in VA, we need to talk about cool places to go with girls. Where I live there's nowhere...
haha i dont think thats it. she knows shes hott, shes been in virginia for like 4 months and was asked to 4 different homecomings this year. jesus.
 
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