Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This new chick I met

Baruch

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Last Friday I went out with this chick for the first time. I did everything right, as soon as I got the IOI's I went for the kiss and we made out for a long time after that in the club and my car.

Then I saw her a 2 days after that, we went to a late night coffee and mostly talked, without making out. Just a goodnight kiss. I figured she is testing me and wants to figure me out some more.

Last night, she called me late at night saying she wants to see me, while she was hanging out with her co workers at a bar. I got off work at 1am and met up with her, we went to her place. She got me all horned out, we made out, her top off, mine off, but she didn;t want to have sex because according to her she was on her period. I don't know how much truth was in that, but she did play nicely with my ****.

Talked to her today again, I think she might invite me to her house again. I am 100% positive she will call me as soon as she gets off work. She is waitress.

The thing is, I hardly know this chick, she is an HB8.5. Really hot, and a hard working girl from what I have noticed. I like those qualities. However, I need to watch out for my values and distance myself for a few days from her to build up the attraction. She already extremly attracted to me, but the fact the she texts me everyday, lets me know she likes me and that she is needy. So I need to build up the attraction and not see her even if she invites me over tonight. I don't want this to be another blue ball night for me.

This chick is a keeper imo. But I want to maintain my manhood. Am I being correct? or should I just go over her place again?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Obsidian

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you want to see the same girl three times in one week? after you met her last friday? Umm, that's 4 times in six days.

umm, i've actually done this before (at the girl's urging) and she never did lose interest, but I still wouldn't recommend it. Let the tension build a little more, and let her miss you.
 

Baruch

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Obsidian said:
you want to see the same girl three times in one week? after you met her last friday? Umm, that's 4 times in six days.

umm, i've actually done this before (at the girl's urging) and she never did lose interest, but I still wouldn't recommend it. Let the tension build a little more, and let her miss you.
I ended up going against your advice because of my previous experience. So I saw the girl and had sex with her. Spent the night at her place. Honestly to say, she was pretty bad in bed. But she is a hot chick with a good personality. So far she seems alright, but I have been wrong before. I keep telling her that I do not date 19 year olds. She is not an exception...for now.
 
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