"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This new chick I met

Baruch

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Last Friday I went out with this chick for the first time. I did everything right, as soon as I got the IOI's I went for the kiss and we made out for a long time after that in the club and my car.

Then I saw her a 2 days after that, we went to a late night coffee and mostly talked, without making out. Just a goodnight kiss. I figured she is testing me and wants to figure me out some more.

Last night, she called me late at night saying she wants to see me, while she was hanging out with her co workers at a bar. I got off work at 1am and met up with her, we went to her place. She got me all horned out, we made out, her top off, mine off, but she didn;t want to have sex because according to her she was on her period. I don't know how much truth was in that, but she did play nicely with my ****.

Talked to her today again, I think she might invite me to her house again. I am 100% positive she will call me as soon as she gets off work. She is waitress.

The thing is, I hardly know this chick, she is an HB8.5. Really hot, and a hard working girl from what I have noticed. I like those qualities. However, I need to watch out for my values and distance myself for a few days from her to build up the attraction. She already extremly attracted to me, but the fact the she texts me everyday, lets me know she likes me and that she is needy. So I need to build up the attraction and not see her even if she invites me over tonight. I don't want this to be another blue ball night for me.

This chick is a keeper imo. But I want to maintain my manhood. Am I being correct? or should I just go over her place again?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Obsidian

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you want to see the same girl three times in one week? after you met her last friday? Umm, that's 4 times in six days.

umm, i've actually done this before (at the girl's urging) and she never did lose interest, but I still wouldn't recommend it. Let the tension build a little more, and let her miss you.
 

Baruch

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Obsidian said:
you want to see the same girl three times in one week? after you met her last friday? Umm, that's 4 times in six days.

umm, i've actually done this before (at the girl's urging) and she never did lose interest, but I still wouldn't recommend it. Let the tension build a little more, and let her miss you.
I ended up going against your advice because of my previous experience. So I saw the girl and had sex with her. Spent the night at her place. Honestly to say, she was pretty bad in bed. But she is a hot chick with a good personality. So far she seems alright, but I have been wrong before. I keep telling her that I do not date 19 year olds. She is not an exception...for now.
 
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