MrJack
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You newer guys ever feel like you just got the sh!t end of the stick in life as far as getting women? (If you’re on SS my guess is yes... and I’m right there with ya)
Now, this is definitely not any groundbreaking discovery this is just to help guys who can relate and who are in a similar stage in life as me.
If you have been shoveling redpill material down your throat like I have lately, you already know this but..
Passing sh!t tests is one of the most important things you can do to boost your success.
Let me elaborate below with my experiences that have led me to now make this a top priority.
Side Note: You may have seen my recent post about my “AMOG friend” and I can say now with confidence, passing sh!t tests is the number 1 thing he has over me.
My situation has always been this:
1. Going through life, I was always told I was handsome by family members, friends of family, and girls would tell me as well as their friends how hot/cute/sexy I am. (Definitely not bragging, as I’m here trying to learn too right?) So that’s cool and all but it was purely based on looks. I believed it and still do because I’ve increased confidence in myself, plus if girls are straight up acknowledging it to their friends that’s a pretty good indicator. Check mark.
2. I started getting into lifting awhile back and achieved a “ripped” look that I thought I could never get. Ended up being a lot easier than I thought due to my specific body type, which is ectomorph. You can research the term if you don’t already know but it basically means you are a skinny fvck who naturally doesn’t have much fat OR muscle. But when an ectomorph lifts consistently and eats more clean foods, they will gain decent muscle mass with minimal fat and become “ripped” in like 2-3 months no joke. Bigger guys only wish it could take them that long. Check mark.
3. I played sports and did fun things like going to parties, chilling at peoples houses, etc. Check mark.
Everything you just read screams of natural alpha right? Or I guess at least a naturally PERCEIVED high SMV.
I say “perceived” because as soon as it came to actually talking to women, OWNING all my qualities, and eventually bedding them, I simply could not find as much success as I had felt I “deserved” and could not for the life of me figure out WHY.
I’d had a few LTR’s over the last decade consisting of lots of sex and I’d also bang a sloot here and there because of them just wanting some d*** from a good looking guy I guess?... but I’m 25 now and obviously women screen much harder and for more qualities than just looks now, like they did a lot in high school/college (just my experience).
One day I found redpill and instantly realized I was raised with super bluepill mindset. I have amazing parents and love them to death but looking back, I naturally had a better connection with my Mom growing up than my Dad for whatever reason (honestly don’t know why because my dad is just as awesome) which is how I came to believe all this Disney fantasy BS.
It also didnt help that I whacked it to p***ography a lot (was addicted) and smoked plenty of weed (somewhat still addicted) throughout the years. If anyone is doing either of these two things I recommend you stop now and thank me later. (Yes I’m a “nofap” advocate, look this up too if you’re interested, there are hundreds of thousands of men that this “movement” has help changed their lives completely. Main idea being that porn is bad, never look at it again).
I’m still in “recovery” from my addictions but am seeing so much improvement in my personality thus far.
I don’t claim to have mastered any of this sh!t yet and I got a long way to go, but after ingesting heaping amounts of redpill material the last couple days (addiction phase lol) I have come to the conclusion that guys like me who LOOK alpha on the outside but are beta on the inside NEED to learn to pass these tests, as this is the number 1 way IMO that a woman can weed out the “fakers” from the “naturals” so to speak. (Obviously regardless of looks, all guys need to learn this but I’m speaking from my perspective).
I was always raised to be truthful and to be a “good guy” and so looking back, naturally I would always give predictable boring answers in response to these sh!t tests and would fail them miserably (hence decreased attraction). Many times the woman would give me a second or even a THIRD chance and I would fail those too. (AKA attraction officially killed and demoted to orbiter status).
My thought is if you’re a good looking guy with good style and you STILL aren’t finding success? You may need to ramp up focus on passing all these tests (while still doing some other things right of course such as kino and being sexual in general, but mainly the tests). You will increase your success tenfold.
Even if you’re just starting out learning this and can’t “maintain the facade” for very long... I guarantee you will at least improve your ONS or first date smash rate just by passing all the common early tests women throw at you when you first meet.
Quick example of that - Met a girl back in high school that was interested, we fvcked 2-3 times and then I was dropped because I’d say stupid sh!t in response to her tests and she wasn’t feeling it anymore. Once I figured out sh!t tests were a thing (years later), I realized she dropped me back then because I constantly failed! This combined with slight neediness, but I’ve fixed that part of me now.
Fast forward from then to last year (8 fvcking years) ran into her again and followed every redpill advice available, focusing mainly on sh!t tests and guess what? Made her my plate and we had sex for many months until she caught feelings and subtly introduced the LTR talk (the ultimate sh!t test!!!) And even though it felt wrong to my core, I denied her request saying it was too early/I like what we have going right now blah blah.
She responded in an angry way because for one, her ego took a big hit and for two, even though she had a hunch... she finally got confirmation from me that she cannot control me and that I do what I want (aloof alpha status). So she cut off contact with me and I started thinking fvck.. maybe redpill is BS and I just potentially ****ed up a good thing... until she eventually did contact me only a few days to a week later... and it was for our normal booty calls as if nothing ever happened
Eventually her want to be exclusive outweighed her will to keep seeing me and it fizzled out... but I chalk it up to a success because I most likely just dodged a world of stress and emotional BS that IME eventually comes with LTR.
Remember: Plates come and go and you should not give a fvck when that happens, you just go find replacements and the cycle continues.
I’ve already wasted too much time typing out this post on my phone at work so I’ll leave out specific sh!t test examples at least for now. Maybe some others can provide examples of common sh!t tests they passed with flying colors?
Either way there are plenty examples online if you search for it.
Happy hunting.
Now, this is definitely not any groundbreaking discovery this is just to help guys who can relate and who are in a similar stage in life as me.
If you have been shoveling redpill material down your throat like I have lately, you already know this but..
Passing sh!t tests is one of the most important things you can do to boost your success.
Let me elaborate below with my experiences that have led me to now make this a top priority.
Side Note: You may have seen my recent post about my “AMOG friend” and I can say now with confidence, passing sh!t tests is the number 1 thing he has over me.
My situation has always been this:
1. Going through life, I was always told I was handsome by family members, friends of family, and girls would tell me as well as their friends how hot/cute/sexy I am. (Definitely not bragging, as I’m here trying to learn too right?) So that’s cool and all but it was purely based on looks. I believed it and still do because I’ve increased confidence in myself, plus if girls are straight up acknowledging it to their friends that’s a pretty good indicator. Check mark.
2. I started getting into lifting awhile back and achieved a “ripped” look that I thought I could never get. Ended up being a lot easier than I thought due to my specific body type, which is ectomorph. You can research the term if you don’t already know but it basically means you are a skinny fvck who naturally doesn’t have much fat OR muscle. But when an ectomorph lifts consistently and eats more clean foods, they will gain decent muscle mass with minimal fat and become “ripped” in like 2-3 months no joke. Bigger guys only wish it could take them that long. Check mark.
3. I played sports and did fun things like going to parties, chilling at peoples houses, etc. Check mark.
Everything you just read screams of natural alpha right? Or I guess at least a naturally PERCEIVED high SMV.
I say “perceived” because as soon as it came to actually talking to women, OWNING all my qualities, and eventually bedding them, I simply could not find as much success as I had felt I “deserved” and could not for the life of me figure out WHY.
I’d had a few LTR’s over the last decade consisting of lots of sex and I’d also bang a sloot here and there because of them just wanting some d*** from a good looking guy I guess?... but I’m 25 now and obviously women screen much harder and for more qualities than just looks now, like they did a lot in high school/college (just my experience).
One day I found redpill and instantly realized I was raised with super bluepill mindset. I have amazing parents and love them to death but looking back, I naturally had a better connection with my Mom growing up than my Dad for whatever reason (honestly don’t know why because my dad is just as awesome) which is how I came to believe all this Disney fantasy BS.
It also didnt help that I whacked it to p***ography a lot (was addicted) and smoked plenty of weed (somewhat still addicted) throughout the years. If anyone is doing either of these two things I recommend you stop now and thank me later. (Yes I’m a “nofap” advocate, look this up too if you’re interested, there are hundreds of thousands of men that this “movement” has help changed their lives completely. Main idea being that porn is bad, never look at it again).
I’m still in “recovery” from my addictions but am seeing so much improvement in my personality thus far.
I don’t claim to have mastered any of this sh!t yet and I got a long way to go, but after ingesting heaping amounts of redpill material the last couple days (addiction phase lol) I have come to the conclusion that guys like me who LOOK alpha on the outside but are beta on the inside NEED to learn to pass these tests, as this is the number 1 way IMO that a woman can weed out the “fakers” from the “naturals” so to speak. (Obviously regardless of looks, all guys need to learn this but I’m speaking from my perspective).
I was always raised to be truthful and to be a “good guy” and so looking back, naturally I would always give predictable boring answers in response to these sh!t tests and would fail them miserably (hence decreased attraction). Many times the woman would give me a second or even a THIRD chance and I would fail those too. (AKA attraction officially killed and demoted to orbiter status).
My thought is if you’re a good looking guy with good style and you STILL aren’t finding success? You may need to ramp up focus on passing all these tests (while still doing some other things right of course such as kino and being sexual in general, but mainly the tests). You will increase your success tenfold.
Even if you’re just starting out learning this and can’t “maintain the facade” for very long... I guarantee you will at least improve your ONS or first date smash rate just by passing all the common early tests women throw at you when you first meet.
Quick example of that - Met a girl back in high school that was interested, we fvcked 2-3 times and then I was dropped because I’d say stupid sh!t in response to her tests and she wasn’t feeling it anymore. Once I figured out sh!t tests were a thing (years later), I realized she dropped me back then because I constantly failed! This combined with slight neediness, but I’ve fixed that part of me now.
Fast forward from then to last year (8 fvcking years) ran into her again and followed every redpill advice available, focusing mainly on sh!t tests and guess what? Made her my plate and we had sex for many months until she caught feelings and subtly introduced the LTR talk (the ultimate sh!t test!!!) And even though it felt wrong to my core, I denied her request saying it was too early/I like what we have going right now blah blah.
She responded in an angry way because for one, her ego took a big hit and for two, even though she had a hunch... she finally got confirmation from me that she cannot control me and that I do what I want (aloof alpha status). So she cut off contact with me and I started thinking fvck.. maybe redpill is BS and I just potentially ****ed up a good thing... until she eventually did contact me only a few days to a week later... and it was for our normal booty calls as if nothing ever happened
Eventually her want to be exclusive outweighed her will to keep seeing me and it fizzled out... but I chalk it up to a success because I most likely just dodged a world of stress and emotional BS that IME eventually comes with LTR.
Remember: Plates come and go and you should not give a fvck when that happens, you just go find replacements and the cycle continues.
I’ve already wasted too much time typing out this post on my phone at work so I’ll leave out specific sh!t test examples at least for now. Maybe some others can provide examples of common sh!t tests they passed with flying colors?
Either way there are plenty examples online if you search for it.
Happy hunting.
