"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This man is pathetic!

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree... he even kinda looks like a woman. AFC if there ever was one
 

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Is he like "this is what a feminist looks like" and I'm proud of it. Or is it meant to be a joke at feminists?

Either way, pink and gay looking with gay hi, guy looks gay.
 

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Any man that declares himself a feminist does so because of two obvious reasons:

1) Has had bad relationship with women or almost no relationships at all his entire life from being an AFC. I never met a proud male feminist who was good with women. In a sense he lashes out against masculine men because he is jealous of them and by taking down the masculine men, he thinks he can even out the playing field.

2) He gave up. He is beyond AFC and his only conclusion is to be surronded by women who will embrace his pathetic nature as opposed to masculine men who shun this kind of a man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michele said:
um...

okay?

YOU're pathetic... who gives a damn about him... or this... seriously?
+1

I'd say I'm a feminist (and a masculinist), I suppose it's up to the Internet to decide whether I'm any good with women or not.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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