"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
this made me laugh
- Thread starter randalll
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
he may well be! disagree with some of his advice though
He said: "Your goal is to make sure she does most of the talking so then you can't mess up."
In his book, Alec suggests that men find a cool role model to base their behaviour on.
..like that
but for a 9 year old he's way ahead of the game!
He said: "Your goal is to make sure she does most of the talking so then you can't mess up."
In his book, Alec suggests that men find a cool role model to base their behaviour on.
..like that
but for a 9 year old he's way ahead of the game!